Women, do you ever feel you "owe" men anything after they take you out?

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PingSpike

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Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: Kitkat13
Originally posted by: Saulbadguy
Originally posted by: PingSpike


That or she was on the rag.

Thats pretty much what I was thinkin!

I'm still saying thats what it was. But OP seems to think he's an expert on women's bodies and knows for sure. Well, I'm not gonna claim to be an expert in that area so I'm gonna have to let him make the judgement call since he says his rag sense was tingling.
 

Ilmater

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Jun 13, 2002
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Originally posted by: thomsbrain
she was probably developing feelings for you, jackass. yeah, feelings, those things women usually develop for their sexual partners. those things she did NOT want to deal with at the end of the month when it came time to leave.
If that's the case, then don't call! Listen, you clearly don't understand: I did NOT have to bribe or convince this girl to have sex with me the first night, and unlike myself, she was not all that intoxicated. To give you an idea of where she stands on things, she mentioned the other night that a few weeks was a "long time for a girl to go without sex." She's not a fvcking angel that thinks that sex is this incredibly sacred thing. She may like me and I don't doubt that, but I think that she is capable of just enjoying sex for what it is. And I think that's a GREAT thing.
grow a fvcking brain and realize she wasn't using you or playing games or trying to trick you with her "unpredictability." what she did was amazingly PREDICTABLE. not only that, it was the smart thing for her do. kudos to her.
If she has problems being with me for a month, then she shouldn't call me back. If we're only going to be friends, then let's just be friends.

Listen, I'm not incredibly rich. I make a good living, but if I take a girl out that's going to take 6 or 7 drinks down in a night and have a $20 dinner, that gets fvcking expensive. I don't mind doing that to be a gentleman if we're going to pursue a relationship. I also don't mind buying a drink for a friend, but there's a reason I don't buy all my friends' drinks: I can't afford it. So, honestly, if it's just going to be a kissing thing and nothing happens, then I don't want to do it any more. You said yourself that it's not a great idea to get feelings involved. We both like sex, and I'm more than willing to buy drinks for her if we're going to have sex. I hate to be so cold and fiscal about it, but again, there's a reason I don't buy friends a drink. If she wants to be friends, I'd love to be friends with her - she's a sweet girl. But if she wants me to buy all her drinks and just say good night at the end of the night, I'd rather end things right now.
 

xirtam

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If you're not enjoying her company while buying her drinks, expecting something else, it sounds to me like you're shooting yourself in the foot. Just be friends with her and hire a hooker. Sounds like that's more along your lines of having a good time.
 

Phoenix86

Lifer
May 21, 2003
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Originally posted by: eakers
she was on the rag.

Along those lines... Why would she bother getting into bed and letting things progress to "talking off her top" before that came up. Then again, I'm married and if she's on the rag, she tells me. ;)

I'm going with "feelings" since she said "I wish I met you a month ago". But who knows... Women, you can't live with them, you can't bury them in lime...