Originally posted by: thomsbrain
she was probably developing feelings for you, jackass. yeah, feelings, those things women usually develop for their sexual partners. those things she did NOT want to deal with at the end of the month when it came time to leave.
If that's the case, then don't call! Listen, you clearly don't understand: I did NOT have to bribe or convince this girl to have sex with me the first night, and unlike myself, she was not all that intoxicated. To give you an idea of where she stands on things, she mentioned the other night that a few weeks was a "long time for a girl to go without sex." She's not a fvcking angel that thinks that sex is this incredibly sacred thing. She may like me and I don't doubt that, but I think that she is capable of just enjoying sex for what it is. And I think that's a GREAT thing.
grow a fvcking brain and realize she wasn't using you or playing games or trying to trick you with her "unpredictability." what she did was amazingly PREDICTABLE. not only that, it was the smart thing for her do. kudos to her.
If she has problems being with me for a month, then she shouldn't call me back. If we're only going to be friends, then let's just be friends.
Listen, I'm not incredibly rich. I make a good living, but if I take a girl out that's going to take 6 or 7 drinks down in a night and have a $20 dinner, that gets fvcking expensive. I don't mind doing that to be a gentleman if we're going to pursue a relationship. I also don't mind buying a drink for a friend, but there's a reason I don't buy all my friends' drinks: I can't afford it. So, honestly, if it's just going to be a kissing thing and nothing happens, then I don't want to do it any more. You said yourself that it's not a great idea to get feelings involved. We both like sex, and I'm more than willing to buy drinks for her if we're going to have sex. I hate to be so cold and fiscal about it, but again, there's a reason I don't buy friends a drink. If she wants to be friends, I'd love to be friends with her - she's a sweet girl. But if she wants me to buy all her drinks and just say good night at the end of the night, I'd rather end things right now.