Woman kicked off plane for breast-feeding baby

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mercanucaribe

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Originally posted by: Wheezer
she had a legal right to breast-feed her baby.

Just because you have a right to do something does not mean that it should be done.

She tried to prove a point and got slapped down....too bad.

What country is this again? The Taliban called, they want their fascist back.. They said they'll pay for your plane ticket.
 

PokerGuy

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Tell you what, if I were on a jury for a trial in a case like this, the airline would be in trouble -- there would be a hefty judgement for the plaintiff.
 

P.O.W.

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Originally posted by: Wheezer
she had a legal right to breast-feed her baby.

Just because you have a right to do something does not mean that it should be done.

She tried to prove a point and got slapped down....too bad.

Dumb b!tch should have let the baby starve!!!!

Ever think that she is a mother? Who knows her baby best? Maybe she knows the baby is more comfortable without a blanket to covering her up.

Breasts are not for performing in porn movies, they produce milk that infants need.
 
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How stupid. No breast/nipple was showing. it is perfectly natural and not at all sexual, and i would NEVER use an airline blanket. They are filthy beyond filthy.
It would have been one thing if she was exposed, but she wasn't.
 

yhelothar

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Originally posted by: shuttleboi
Breastfeeding on a plane is different from breastfeeding in a public area (say, a park). If someone is offended, he/she cannot leave the plane; in a large public area, he/she can go somewhere else. The airline is right in this case.

What if I get bothered by the morbidly obese woman sitting on the row next to me? Can I get her to leave the plane since I'm offended by it?
Just because some people gets offended, that doesn't give it a basis for bannage. That's absurd.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
While I think the airline is being stupid here and I do not agree with their decision, I have to say an airline (or any property owner) SHOULD be within it's rights to remove her if that's what they want to do.

It IS their airliner, after all.

It's our Country too.

All prudes and wusses are free to leave if they don't like it.

Fine, I'm going to come over to your house and masturbate in front of your wife and kids.

An airliner is PRIVATE PROPERTY, Dave. It is not "your country." It is their plane.
 

Strk

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I'm mixed on this one, as others seem to be. The airline didn't try and remove her for breastfeeding, but for her unwillingness to add a little extra discretion, which I consider a legitimate issue on an airline. Also, only the woman says she was covered, but that doesn't necessarily mean she was. Perhaps she wasn't nearly as covered as she thought she was and the flight attendant noticed?
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: virtualgames0
Originally posted by: shuttleboi
Breastfeeding on a plane is different from breastfeeding in a public area (say, a park). If someone is offended, he/she cannot leave the plane; in a large public area, he/she can go somewhere else. The airline is right in this case.

What if I get bothered by the morbidly obese woman sitting on the row next to me? Can I get her to leave the plane since I'm offended by it?

If you OWN THE PLANE, sure, why not?

If a fat smelly person comes into your house and you're offended, would you think twice before asking them to leave (or making up a lame excuse to get them to leave)?

What people keep seeming to forget here is a plane is private property. Most of you and I obviously do not agree with their decision... but it's their decision to make since it's THEIR PLANE.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Number1
MSNBC Article

I have nothing against women breast feeding in public but in this case I think the airline is right. She should have used the blanket they offered to cover up.

The first problem is she is nursing a kid who is almost 2 years old. Time to stop sucking on the boobie at that age.
The second problem is she should've covered up the boobs since it was bothering people. It would've been easy to be more discreet. Note: she was NOT kicked off the plane for breastfeeding, but for letting her boob hang out.
The third problem is the airline will probably have to settle with her monitarily over this. :roll:
 

allisolm

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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
I'm a gal. I just feel breastfeeding a child who is 22 months old is ridiculous. IMO
LOL

I'm a gal, too and I feel that, if the child is old enough to walk up to you and tell you that he wants to breast feed, he's too old to breast feed. 22 months - yikes! The kid's got a full set of choppers. No thanks! :shocked:

 

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
While I think the airline is being stupid here and I do not agree with their decision, I have to say an airline (or any property owner) SHOULD be within it's rights to remove her if that's what they want to do.

It IS their airliner, after all.

It's our Country too.

All prudes and wusses are free to leave if they don't like it.

Fine, I'm going to come over to your house and masturbate in front of your wife and kids.

An airliner is PRIVATE PROPERTY, Dave. It is not "your country." It is their plane.

I find the private property argument rather interesting. It's true that it's not a publicly owned aircraft, but I believe that any company using privately owned property in an attempt to profit from the public (like the airline) is forced to yield some of its rights as a property owner over the control of those who would be it's clients or customers on its property. For example, in many states mothers have a right to breastfeed in public places, including restaurants, shopping malls, and the like. Link I'm not a lawyer, but there might be an argument over what constitutes a public place; I don't know. Could a business owner ban free speech on private property? How about being outwardly gay in an obvious fashion?

Could we extend this argument to the smoking ban in public places? (I'm not saying I'm for or against public smoking bans - just using the example). Again, some owner of privately property is yielding control of patron's activities to comply with the laws of the land, but only because that property is used in a public fashion. I think there are many rights a property owner gives up when using that property in a public fashion. I'm sure there is a legal term for this, but again, I'm not a lawyer.
 

Gooberlx2

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Originally posted by: FrankyJunior
She'll win this case so easily... Hope she gets a huge settlement.

They're lucky they weren't in WI. It's illegal here to even make a comment about someone breastfeeding.

What? Since when? I lived in Wisconsin for 10 years and never heard anything about that.
 

cherrytwist

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Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: FrankyJunior
She'll win this case so easily... Hope she gets a huge settlement.

They're lucky they weren't in WI. It's illegal here to even make a comment about someone breastfeeding.

What? Since when? I lived in Wisconsin for 10 years and never heard anything about that.

Nobody talks about it for fear of being arrested.

Duh!
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: spigot
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
While I think the airline is being stupid here and I do not agree with their decision, I have to say an airline (or any property owner) SHOULD be within it's rights to remove her if that's what they want to do.

It IS their airliner, after all.

It's our Country too.

All prudes and wusses are free to leave if they don't like it.

Fine, I'm going to come over to your house and masturbate in front of your wife and kids.

An airliner is PRIVATE PROPERTY, Dave. It is not "your country." It is their plane.

I find the private property argument rather interesting. It's true that it's not a publicly owned aircraft, but I believe that any company using privately owned property in an attempt to profit from the public (like the airline) is forced to yield some of its rights as a property owner over the control of those who would be it's clients or customers on its property. For example, in many states mothers have a right to breastfeed in public places, including restaurants, shopping malls, and the like. Link I'm not a lawyer, but there might be an argument over what constitutes a public place; I don't know. Could a business owner ban free speech on private property? How about being outwardly gay in an obvious fashion?

Could we extend this argument to the smoking ban in public places? (I'm not saying I'm for or against public smoking bans - just using the example). Again, some owner of privately property is yielding control of patron's activities to comply with the laws of the land, but only because that property is used in a public fashion. I think there are many rights a property owner gives up when using that property in a public fashion. I'm sure there is a legal term for this, but again, I'm not a lawyer.

A customer is using the property owner's property with the permission and invitation of the property owner. ANY private property owner should be free to set any rules he wishes to use his property.

Yes, I know which way the law is going these days on this issue and it's absurd... and irrelevant to my point.

To claim a private property owner gives up rights merely because he sells a product or a service is absurd. From where in the Constitution do customers derive such rights? In my opinion, any "right" of one individual that necessitates the violation or loss of rights of another individual is not and cannot be a "right."

In this case, the property owner loses rights and the customer gains rights. A clear case of UNequal protection under the law.

Again, I do not agree with the airliner's decision. But it is their decision to make.

Example: Anandtech is a privately run message board open to the public. The rules here are absolute. Anything that offends the owner is grounds for removal.
 

B00ne

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Originally posted by: Number1
MSNBC Article

I have nothing against women breast feeding in public but in this case I think the airline is right. She should have used the blanket they offered to cover up.

Only in the US - and some Arab countries I guess....


Btw, what was she supposed to so with the blanket? Pull it over the childs head and have it suffocate - or perhaps build a tent with it to hide in - ridiculous
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: B00ne
Originally posted by: Number1
MSNBC Article

I have nothing against women breast feeding in public but in this case I think the airline is right. She should have used the blanket they offered to cover up.

Only in the US - and some Arab countries I guess....

Only in your ignorance...

In reality, the reactions to breast feeding in public in Europe are as varied as the countries themselves.

The same goes for the Asia where the practice and reaction to it widely varies.

And in nearly all cases where it is allowed, discretion and modesty is the rule.
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
While I think the airline is being stupid here and I do not agree with their decision, I have to say an airline (or any property owner) SHOULD be within it's rights to remove her if that's what they want to do.

It IS their airliner, after all.

It's our Country too.

All prudes and wusses are free to leave if they don't like it.

Fine, I'm going to come over to your house and masturbate in front of your wife and kids.

An airliner is PRIVATE PROPERTY, Dave. It is not "your country." It is their plane.

Since you can't tell the difference between breast feeding and masturbating, you obviously have much bigger problems beyond the scope of an Internet Forum.

Please seek professional mental help.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Amused
While I think the airline is being stupid here and I do not agree with their decision, I have to say an airline (or any property owner) SHOULD be within it's rights to remove her if that's what they want to do.

It IS their airliner, after all.

It's our Country too.

All prudes and wusses are free to leave if they don't like it.

Fine, I'm going to come over to your house and masturbate in front of your wife and kids.

An airliner is PRIVATE PROPERTY, Dave. It is not "your country." It is their plane.

Since you can't tell the difference between breast feeding and masturbating, you obviously have much bigger problems beyond the scope of an Internet Forum.

Please seek professional mental help.

No, Dave. The key here is private property and offending the owner.

But then... why am I not surprised you couldn't understand that simple concept?
 

krunchykrome

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Here's my 2 cents regarding public breast feeding.

It should be done in your own privacy. If a man puts his hands down his pants and starts scratching his balls, it would be considered rude. The same goes for breast feeding. I know it's natural, and it's none of my business whether a mother does so in her own privacy or not. But when you're in public, show a little respect to others around you. When you have a baby, you will be forced to make certain changes in your life. You cant go to a movie theater because theres a chance the baby will cry and ruin it for others. And if you know you're going to have to breast feed on a plane, either don't make the trip or make the trip without your baby, or use a pump and come with a bottle prepared in advance. Im glad the airline kicked her off the plane. I dont understand what it is that makes people feel as though they can do what they wish and feel that they deserve sympathy and special rights just because they have a newborn baby.
 

preCRT

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Once a kid is walking & talking, let alone almost 2 yrs old, it's time for the mom to let go & give up public breastfeeding.

She was obviously not doing it discreetly or the attendant would not have noticed.




I'm a woman & I'm disgusted by the la leche propagandists who think anything is ok in public, even whipping them out to nurse a 5 yr old. Bleeeech.
 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Airline overreacted.

If you can do it in public, then you should be able to do it on a plane.



well in many countries it is perfectly accpetable to urinate in public, does that mean that it is ok for someone to take a whizz in the asile of a plane?

That's a ridiculous argument - that's what bathrooms are for.

There is no replacement to a baby's breast milk.

She can't breast feed in the bathroom?
Bottom line is she was trying to be an ass about it and got smacked down for it. This has absolutely nothing about the USA being prudish or any other nonsense. Good for the airlines! :thumbsup:
 

Garet Jax

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Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious

Health benefits were highest when weaning began between 4-6 months of age, as determined in the review (Foote & Marriott 2003) of numerous studies on weaning.

Whether or not that is true, doesn't change the fact that lots of children get emotional benefit from breast feeding. Moms do too.
 

krunchykrome

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Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious

Health benefits were highest when weaning began between 4-6 months of age, as determined in the review (Foote & Marriott 2003) of numerous studies on weaning.

Whether or not that is true, doesn't change the fact that lots of children get emotional benefit from breast feeding. Moms do too.

There's nothing wrong with breastfeeding itself, but for damn sake, do it in your own privacy. Theres a reason why most people dont change a dirty diaper in a crowded room, and it should be the same reason why they shouldnt breast feed in public.