The way to fix that - reduce federal spending.
You spend what you bring in. The government has a budget, that budget is that is brought in though taxes.
How many of us can go to our boss and say "I just bought 3 new houses, so I need a raise."
It sounds like you're taking for granted EVERYTHING the government does for us. Yeah, we need to cut down on spending for certain things...I agree. But all this nonsense about reducing government and cutting spending just doesn't make any sense.
Would you really rather have a private company build your roads? Your parks? Schools that children NEED in order to be competitive in this day and age (we're already quite behind in this area? Would you rather have a private company say who does and does not get medical care simply because of how much they make? You know, the world is not an even playing field. Yes, some people abuse the system, and we should make every effort to get rid of that. But there are countless numbers of people that NEED services that the government provides.
I'm not saying government runs the country perfectly, but I'd sure as hell rather see it running the country than the private sector, which doesn't hide the fact that it's more interested in money than people. That is what will happen if we start cutting government down and reducing spending for the sake of "living within our means".
Based on your analogy, it's actually more like, "Hey, I only have half of a house that is half functioning. I really need more money from you if you want me to, you know, survive so that I can work for you."
Unless you're making a lot of money (you really don't need millions of dollars to live a more-than-comfortable life), Obama isn't out to raise your taxes. He primarily wants to get rid of the Bush tax cuts, which were meant to be temporary from the start, and end loopholes that allow the rich to end up paying less in taxes than the non-rich.
Here's an idea...get taxes back to how they were in the 90s (which is what Obama wants to do) AND cut spending. Two for one solution to help pay off our debt, which we were WELL on our way to doing in the 90s under Clinton.