There is nothing "adult" about respecting opinions regardless of their content. I respect opinions that are well-thought out, well-presented, entertaining, etc. Your attitude - of judging an individual solely based on physical appearance - gave no semblance of the opinion-holder having, at the least, a modicum of intelligence.
If you want to judge people solely based on their physical appearance, that's fine. Just don't expect me to respect you for doing so; or, better yet, post your pic and let all of us judge you solely based on it. Our opinions of you based solely on your appearance can't be worse than they are based solely on your posts.
Rob
Dude, you think too much. It's just a common sense, like a general public opinion. Does it need to be well-thought? No, because it's not important.
Just like when I'm walking on the street and see a very ugly guy going out with a very beautiful woman or vice versa, the first thing I'd say is "wow, I couldn't believe it!" and then I move on. Maybe they have some good reasons why they should be together. It's their choice. Do I care about it? No. Should I spend time to figure out why? No, it's not worth it.
Maybe someday I must make a decision to choose a woman for my life, I'd carefully think about it. There's a possibility that I'd rather marry an ugly one. But this is just for fun, who cares? You like or not? It doesn't matter to me at all. You don't respect me? It's fine. It's life, I don't expect everyone respect and love me.
Please take it easy and have fun! 🙂 But if you don't really like it, please don't read this thread. People come and go in this forum, I hope we all try to be nice with one another. I come to this forum solely to relax, have fun and get to know people from different places. Since we don't know each other's real life, I know my judgement against others is not always correct, and thus, I don't have any judgement against anyone else!