Originally posted by: cubby1223
Originally posted by: ZzZGuy
Originally posted by: dyna
Its simple, its a morality issue. Its been considered for a long long time that homosexuality is immoral.
There is a psychological factor in the fact that two people of the same sex want this type of relationship. It is against the normal course of nature.
That is false. Homosexuality is observed in nature, both in the wild and captivity.
It is perfectly natural.
Cannibalism is observed in nature, both in the wild and captivity.
It is perfectly natural.
You, in your ignorance, have stumbled across an issue I'll address - the definition of 'natural'.
I'm going to point out two definitions of the word, and say that you have mistakenly chosen one when the other is the relevant one.
The relevant one is natural as in the 'nature vs. nurture' debate; in other words, the one that differentiates between 'you feel sexual attractions naturally' with 'you believe that honesty is the best policy' that comes from experience, and is not something you are born to believe.
The one you picked is 'it's natural if it occurs in the universe', by which standard all sexual and other behavior is natural; the Empire State Building is as natural as a beach.
What's 'unnatural' there is, say, 2+2=5, or gravity not existing.
We do need to clarify for discussing gay marriage that only the first definition would have any relevance to the discussion.
Having said that, I don't think 'natural' is the issue, anyway. It's helpful for one purpose: for debunking those who oppose homosexuals because they think that it's people just like them who choose 'perversion', just as they condemn people like them who coose to, say, commit burglary. "It's wrong to choose that". These people have an utter lack of understanding of homosexuality and think it's just some choice.
Insofar as it's useful for them to not misunderstand homosexuality, it's helpful to point out their error. But 'natural' has limited usefulness. While homosexuality is generally 'natural', what if it wasn't? Since when do the wide range of heterosexual sexual practices fall under judgement to tell straight couples whether or not they can get married - if you like to watch porn, no marriage for you! If you like oral sex, no marriage for you! If you are a swinger, if you choose abstinence, if you like maid outfits, no marriage for you!
It it weren't 'natural', it woudl raise the issue of whether it was 'real' marriage in terms of a loving couple the same way as a man and woman; but I'd ask, is every couple with a CEO husband that marries a 'trophy wife' based on the same values, and since when does the government scrutinize those relationships for approval? The only reason to treat gay marriage differently is the bigotry that exists against gays, and that's not a reason.
Ths whole 'natural' issue is harmful in implying that gay rights rest on the 'naturalness' of homosexuality, when they don't - even while it's worth correcting the false beliefs.