i was just wondering if its only me or all first time sellers have/had problems. what happened to good old trust for humanity. ?. not everybody has been selling on EBAy from 1998...... i just started cause i need money to be honest but nearly all the people that offer me want me to ship the product first. is this the way it goes???. how many transcations/ref. u need to have to be able to convince thr buyer of ur credibility. i am having a real hard time. i do not hide anything from prospective buyers. i am willing to give my address/phone number . if they want to check.then why still people shy away from ifrst time sellers .i am feeling so depressed today. !!