That *is* how trading is done. If you don't have references, and want to sell something to me, you ship first...unless I think I can trust you well enough. If you've ever been burned on a deal (doesn't sound like you have), you might understand.
Trust is not a right; it is a *privelege* to be earned and maintained through actions. That is true in all areas of life, and doubly so when money is at stake.what happened to good old trust for humanity?
Originally posted by: GermyBoy
WTF is all of your problems? This is ebay. Nobody ships first. That's all there is to it.
You send the money, you get the item. Only go with people who will pay with paypal and you'll be fine.
Shipping first is a minor hassle in the grand scheme of things, so just put in your time like everyone else has and it will be over before you know it. And of course make sure that you are shipping to established traders so that you don't get trolled yourself.
Geez, could you be any more melodramatic? It's nothing personal on our part, just good business sense. Look, you have two options here: either (1) hold out until someone agrees to pay first, or (2) ship first to someone with plenty of heat (it may not be a 100% safe strategy but it's as close as you'll get when it comes to internet trading). Either way I don't see what the big problem is, and why you feel the need to complain about it. Just make your decision and stick to it.o.k so the moral of all the people who have expressed themselves here is that if u are first time seller, u be the scrapegoat.