:thumbsup: You and I are reading the exact same page from the exact same book. It is indeed a "cost of doing business" but money is tight for me. Married with children is really different than single. :\
When and if I do go out, if I'm drinking then I have a plan. Corny but true: If you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.
True story: Last year my buddies car (he was the DD and sober) got stopped at a DUI checkpoint. I was in the passenger seat. When they put the light in my face I just slobbered all over the cop and said "HOWDY OCCIFFFEERRR!! I'm bombed, but my chauffer is sober as a churchmouse....really...he's like ....sober and stuff....you should let me calibrate your DUI sniffer...I would break it...." The cop laughed and waved us through. 😀