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Why do so many people think money = women??

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ClarityZedd

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I'm 29 and I'm on track to make 185K this year while living in a relatively cheap area (you can buy a beautiful 3000 sqr foot house for 350K). I have all the trappings of success - 70,000 luxury sports sedan, a very nice house by myself (only dude in subdivision anywhere near my age), I dress super super sharp, I vacation 8 times a year and go out to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/festivals in the area.

I'm also not bad looking at all - I'm about a 7/10 realistically and clearly workout. Im maybe 5'10 195 and built sorta like an NFL linebacker. Heavily masculine features in the face. Don't get me wrong - I'm no male model but I'm way way above average. i have a great social circle.

...I have absolutely zero dating life. I occasionally have women approach me or make themselves available to me but they're always either 34+, have a kid or not that cute. The quality women- cute, in shape, decent job, decent personality, no kids, in their 20s - are insanely insanely hard to get. You pretty much have to be a male model to get the quality girls nowadays

So where does this nonsense come from that hot women fall over themselves to date you when you're successful?
 
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Red Storm said:
Then you must have a terrible personality. It's the one and only explanation, I'm sorry.
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It's not like I get turned down all the time, I just very rarely see any decent opportunities to go after anybody who is any good.

overweight/old/single moms approach me or make themselves available to me regularly but the 26 year old hotties are always with 8 friends at the bar or they're wearing headphones at a gym. There is always a million obstacles in the way.
 
ClarityZedd said:
It's not like I get turned down all the time, I just very rarely see any decent opportunities to go after anybody who is any good.

overweight/old/single moms approach me or make themselves available to me regularly but the 26 year old hotties are always with 8 friends at the bar or they're wearing headphones at a gym. There is always a million obstacles in the way.
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They're on dating sites - nobody flirts in person anymore. It's creepy.
 
sandorski said:
You might be too picky. If you want Super Models, you're dirt poor.
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supermodels? I just want the female version of me

me
-7 to 8/10 face
- big muscles
- dress super sharp
- smart/well spoken/educated
- super loyal and would do anything for my loved ones
- huge into family values
- very successful both in terms of how much I make and how well I manage finances
- no kids but want kids

I just want the female version of that. I'm not a fat guy asking for a hottie. In terms of finances, I just want a woman with a decent professional job...she doesn't have to make anywhere near what I make
 
dave_the_nerd said:
They're on dating sites - nobody flirts in person anymore. It's creepy.
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You think you're gonna pick up a cute, fit, professional childless 26 year old woman on a dating site?? lmaoooooooo. Funny guy, very funny

I hope you look like Brad Pitt in his prime and make about 50 billion a year... you might have a very tiny chance in that case.
 
ClarityZedd said:
no I'm super chill in real life

I just very rarely see any real opportunities with anybody decent. Attractive women in their 20s have so many options it would make your head spin so they make it extremely difficult to ask them out
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People who throw off a creepy vibe don't generally know they're throwing off a creepy vibe.

The good news is that it's fixable.
 
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