Originally posted by: YoYoBabyYo
Originally posted by: dderidex
I didn't drink under 21.
You shouldn't either. It's bad. :|
That said, I do drink...eh...fairly regularly now. Few beers once a week or so, maybe get right smashed once a month, if that. It's a nice way to blow of stress. Which is why it's stupid for kids to do. However stressful you think high school is, college is worse. And however stressful you think college is, "real life" is MUCH worse. Starting drinking in high school is thus totally lame.
I am approaching 22 and I still haven't had a sip. I really do not see what is so great about drinking when most of my friend in college drink just to get drunk. I think for the most part to my not wanting to drink is after I read the article about Jacqui Saburido
Jacqui Saburido, and it depresses me to realize how irresponsible many people can be.
But I would understand if people drink because they are stressed out, since I almost considered turning to alcohol when I found out I earned a D in one of my classes this past semester.
Don't 'drink to get drunk' - drinking is a journey, not a goal.
Seriously, try a couple beers in a small group of friends you regularly have fun with. Just a couple. You won't go off your rocker and forget the evening or anything, don't keep drinking until you can't see straight, etc.
Alcohol, in moderation, just makes fun times more fun. That's about it. Yeah, you can go overboard with it, but you can go overboard with anything.
It's like Pizza, really. One slice is good but you want more, eating a whole pizza in one sitting will make you quite sick (well, most people, anyway). There is a point after you've had a few slices where you realize that's pretty well enough for you, and any more would be pushing it. Same thing with alcohol. One beer is nice, you'll probably want more, but you'll have a pretty good idea LONG before you are drunk that you are getting there.
FWIW, also don't make your first experience 'piss' beers that...well, taste like piss. Buds, MGDs, etc. Try a local brewpub (every town has one, or has one nearby) and try some of their beers. That's really the best way to go. More expensive, but worth it. Plus, they usually have some really interesting dinners, too (the place we loved to go to in NE Ohio had pizzas that the crust was made from the 'spent' grains from brewing. OMG, those pizzas tasted *awesome*.)
Originally posted by: PoPPeR
it was helpful in making me less uptight, which allowed me to be more social. I used to be very quiet, but after a couple of talkative nights thanks to alcohol, I became a much more social person.
It helped me, but i think i'm in the minority on that one
Nah, I think that's the effect it has on everyone.
It's more the rare cases (people who've led a rough life, usually) that get mean or angry when they've had a few. Most people it just makes feel better.