Originally posted by: saymyname
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Because they're fvcking clueless when it comes to life.
Deal with it.
That is whether you realize it or not completely and entirely irrelevant, if a kid earns his own money, their legal guardian should have no right to take their money away. How does a kid's responsibility or lack thereof have anything to do with their right to earn, 24: save, and spend their own money? You understand the point of growing up, right? Why minors can't enter into contracts, right? Part of growing up is learning personal responsibility and accountability, if they learn that spending all of their money right away isn't beneficial to them so why can't they own any property? You realize you can own property with out entering contractual obligations or anything of the sort.
Then, using your own arguments against you, your parents should be able to charge you room & board for the 18 years you live with and sponge off of them...After all, you live in THEIR house, and eat THEIR food...right?
That would constitute as a CONTRACT in my book. You're making a CONTRACT with your super that in order to stay in that residence you're to be at home at night by a certain time and must make payments on a designated day every month or however frequently the contract agreement says.
Yep. You can't have it both ways...if you want to be treated like an adult, then you get it ALL...pay your own bills, pay room and board, etc...become emancipated...if you want your parents to treat you like the child you are, and support you, then you are subject to all the laws that govern that as well...
The lack of empathy and this ideology that everything is "Black and White" in this thread startles me.
I feel as though everyone who has participated in this thread feels that everything they believed in as a child was wrong and that now that they're more 'mature' that they're able to take an objective stance on things, when it's obvious they're biased. Just looking at the disproprotionate support for reducing the drinking age to 18 is evidence in itself.. I wouldn't be surprised if their mindset changed when they hit 21+.
I didn't have the internet to discuss these things when I was 16. You're 16 right?
Print this thread out and read it when you're in your late 20's and see what you think.
There are a lot of things in life that aren't fair. Oh well.
Lets think about the things that we have age limits for:
16 - driver's license: I personally find this way too young. Should be 18. I'm not sure I knew a single person who was ready at 16 to drive. I had friends that failed the test multiple times and then totalled multiple cars when they finally scraped by.
18 - to vote, go to war, sign a contract, get married etc: Hopefully you're ready for the responsability.
21 - Drinking age: Really stupid. Why it's 21 I have no idea. You could technically be a war veteren, married, and with kids but not be able to drink. If age is of concern, just make the penalty for a DUI stiffer.
24 - Qualify as independent for financial aid: This one is really stupid.
25: Rent a car: Combined with the one above it's just a hastle.
You're a kid. Your perception is still that of a child. If you are willing to pay all the bills and accept all responsability for your actions then you can be an adult. That is of course if you can grasp what that entails. Most people can't. Many people reach "adulthood" and still can't.