why do fiance's call it quits?

[Saint Nick]

i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

 

[KLin]

They're too immature to go through with it is one possilble reason.

 

[dartworth]

its better to have it happen before getting married$$$

 

[K1052]

Prenuptial agreements?

 

[KingofCamelot]

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

 

[vi edit]

It sounded like the right thing at the time...then after the emotion of the moment fades away the reality of situation sits in.

 

[Zolty]

for the "OMG we are getting married" sex

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

 

[KingofCamelot]

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

i think you are misunderstanding what i'm asking, thanks for being a complete dick! :beer:

 

[KingofCamelot]

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

i think you are misunderstanding what i'm asking, thanks for being a complete dick! :beer:

You're welcome! :beer:

I don't see anyone else posting in here...just trying to answer the question the way I read it.

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

i think you are misunderstanding what i'm asking, thanks for being a complete dick! :beer:

You're welcome! :beer:

I don't see anyone else posting in here...just trying to answer the question the way I read it.

I'm posting here!

 

[shilala]

Relationships start going to shyt the moment one of the two starts thinking more about themselves than the other person.
Once the ball is rolling, it isn't easily stopped.

 

[Bryophyte]

Sometimes it's because you realize that no matter how much you love someone, you can't live with their demons (alcoholism, whatever.) You can't bear to watch someone self-destruct.

 

Because people change.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

i think you are misunderstanding what i'm asking, thanks for being a complete dick! :beer:

hmmm he was right...didn't have to say you have no common sense though.

They wake up one day and realize WTF am I doing here.

You may be a great person, but every great person is someone's worst.

 

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

I'm sorry, but you seem to have no common sense, or I'm misunderstanding what you are asking.

Fiancees break up for the same reasons people get divorced. They realize they don't really love the person, or whatever. I don't know why they would want to get married after they realize that, as it would only lead to a divorce in the long term.

i think you are misunderstanding what i'm asking, thanks for being a complete dick! :beer:

hmmm he was right...didn't have to say you have no common sense though.

They wake up one day and realize WTF am I doing here.

You may be a great person, but every great person is someone's worst.

So did you and wifey work it out then?

 

[mrrman]

it to easy to give up on things in life...should have to earn your way out

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

They do not really want to get married. It is better for everyone involved that they do not get married if it is a mistake.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: SampSon

Originally posted by: alkemyst

hmmm he was right...didn't have to say you have no common sense though.

They wake up one day and realize WTF am I doing here.

You may be a great person, but every great person is someone's worst.

So did you and wifey work it out then?

well I have a second wife now so no. However, during the years until that I wouldn't say we didn't end up passing in a secluded spot.

You have no game against me though no matter how hard you try.

g0 y0u!

 

[Shadowknight]

Could be worse. My brother got married. 6 months later she decided she wasn't ready for marriage and divorced him. They only dated for 6 months before getting engaged, I personally think you should date for 2-3 years before getting engaged to help avoid that kind of crap.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

well at least they tried, i suppose... why wouldn't the people wanting to get married not want to give it a shot and go through with it

People sometimes realize they screwed up and made a mistake in agreeing to get married. There's NOTHING wrong with that. You act like marriage is this great and wonderful thing that should be preserved at all costs, when in reality it is not.

 

[DainBramaged]

Originally posted by: KingofCamelot

Originally posted by: jndietz
i don't understand why they would not want to get married and break it off. if they love each other why would they break it off?

what happens?

edit: oh and spare the smartass comments, please

Why do married people get divorces?

exactly

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Shadowknight
Could be worse. My brother got married. 6 months later she decided she wasn't ready for marriage and divorced him. They only dated for 6 months before getting engaged, I personally think you should date for 2-3 years before getting engaged to help avoid that kind of crap.

Dating an extended period of time doesn't help marriages work out long terms.

The people have to want to be married and be content that they are committing a lifetime to each other in a traditional marriage.

 

[BobDaMenkey]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: Shadowknight
Could be worse. My brother got married. 6 months later she decided she wasn't ready for marriage and divorced him. They only dated for 6 months before getting engaged, I personally think you should date for 2-3 years before getting engaged to help avoid that kind of crap.

Dating an extended period of time doesn't help marriages work out long terms.

The people have to want to be married and be content that they are committing a lifetime to each other in a traditional marriage.

But generally if you can put up with being with another person for 2-3 years in a serious relationship, you can generally consider yourself ready to be with them for the rest of your life. If you have no qualms with them after being close to them for such a long time, then you can last a much longer time together.

I know that the closer and closer you get to someone you think you really like, the more likely you are to find stuff out about them that you really really hate. It's the little stuff that bugs you constantly and gets under your skin that will lead to the end of your relationships, one way or another quite frequently.