Why do all you geeks look for women? ***PROOF THAT MARRIAGE IS A SHAM!***

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johnjbruin

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Have any of you guys ever seen a happy marriage. In my whole existence of more than 2 decades, I dont think I have seen a marriage in which the husband/wife didnt have some sort of problem with each other.
 

Chaotic42

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Originally posted by: johnjbruin
Have any of you guys ever seen a happy marriage. In my whole existence of more than 2 decades, I dont think I have seen a marriage in which the husband/wife didnt have some sort of problem with each other.

Sure, I've seen them. Two of my uncles and my grandparents (who adopted me). My roomate's parents have a good marriage, at least as far as I can tell.

I've never seen people my age (21) in good marriages though.
 

dfi

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Pre-nup all the way. Marriage is a time commitment. If it doesn't work out, then both partners have lost time. No one should be compensated.

dfi
 

Coquito

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Originally posted by: MindStorm
Rachel is a real girl. The list was taken from her website. Rachel is a typical American woman. Keep in mind that she expects everything on the list simply because she has vagina.
5'8? and taller
Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
Handsome
Muscular
Weight depending on height ? not skinny, not fat
Good sense of humor
Dimples
Cute laugh
Sensitive
*Affectionate* in front of friends
Gives me lots of attention
Outgoing
Popular but doesn't know the whole state
Friends with my friends
Nice smile
Straight teeth
No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
Pierced ear(s) if any
Not too many tattoos if any
Likes to cuddle
Likes to party
Takes me out
Grabs my hand to hold
Kisses me unexpectedly
Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
Has a good job
Tells me he misses me when we're not together
Makes me laugh
Open minded
Polite
Holds doors for me
Opens car doors
*Romantic*
Likes all type of music
Likes going to the movies
Talks to his friends about me
Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
Gives massages without me having to ask
Plays with my hair
Calls me to just say hi
Tries not to argue
Apologizes for when he does wrong
Says what he's feeling
Has a car
Has a dog
Has a family that likes me
Compliments me
Is tan
Doesn't curse all the time
Wants to be with me as much as possible
Comes over unexpectedly
Wakes me up with a kiss
Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
*Trustworthy*
Patient
Likes to shop
Has good manners
Doesn't smoke
Occasionally drinks
Athletic
Is on time for dates
Calls back later when he says he will
Lives close to me
Wants to meet my family
Treats me like a princess
Has a cute butt
Good kissable lips
Good kisser
Good memory
Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
Intelligent
Has direction
Creative
Likes everything about me
Committed
*My best friend*
Respectful
Mature
Persistent ? Hard working
Likes walks on the beach
Likes just staying home sometimes
Writes me songs/poems
Likes to dance
Has a sexy voice
Cooks for me
Likes to show me off
Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
Likes to take pictures
Flirts with me in public and in private
Puts up with my mood swings
Comforts me when I'm sad
Doesn't say ?sorry? all the time when it's not needed
Sticks up for me
Likes animals
Sends me flowers for no reason
Ignores my imperfections
Surprises me (good surprises)
Doesn't ever yell at me
Likes picnics
Likes to clean
First to say I Love You
Listens to me
Smells good
*Doesn't lie*
Likes kids
Makes me the center of his world
Not in trouble with the law
Isn't a goody-goody
Doesn't stare at other girls
Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
Doodles our names on paper
Likes to draw
Leaves notes on my car
Let's me go out with him and his friends
Will hang out with me and my friends
Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
Gets jealous but not too jealous
Dependable
Doesn't hang up on me
Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
Calls me cute pet names
Isn't conceited
Isn't a penny-pincher
Likes sports and going to sports events
Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
Doesn't play mind games
Doesn't just think about sex
Cares about world issues
Doesn't make me cry
Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
Isn't shy
Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
Not opinionated
Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
Can spell


she left one out: oh, and please don't be gay this time.

 

Chaotic42

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Originally posted by: Coquito
she left one out: oh, and please don't be gay this time.
She wants someone who isn't opinionated, but cares about "world issues".

 

DOSfan

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Sorry,I don't agree with that generalization at all.I'm an American woman and quite frankly I rock!

Btw,every dude I've come across over the years who went the mail order bride route had some pretty serious liabilties of his own .

Sorry Geekbabe.

But I have to side with us "liability prone" men.

Every women who has ever asked me why I distrust women so much answered the exact same way when I tell them.


Cliff notes:

I distrust women because: (Fill in any number of reasons)
Womans responce: Oh, I am not like that! OR I rock! :p

Result: 2 to 6 months later, they turn out to be EXACTLY like that.

So I do hope you will forgive me if I do not believe you futher than I can see an electron with my naked eye.

And to be fair, yes I may cause them to be like that. But I doubt it. ;)
 

QueHuong

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Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Originally posted by: MindStorm
she left one out: oh, and please don't be gay this time.
She wants someone who isn't opinionated, but cares about "world issues".

That's not my quote by the way - you suck at clicking the quote button :p

Anyway, another contradiction was that she demanded, what, last count was 403? 403 qualities in a guy, but wants the guy to "Ignore my imperfections." FVCK YOU BITCH.
 

xSauronx

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Originally posted by: FallenHero
Read up boys

Here is a nice sample from the site...

My granddad told me an insightful story before my wedding. He said for the first year of marriage to put a penny in a jar every time I had sex with my wife. Starting in year two, take out two pennies every time we had sex. He said there'd be money in the jar when I died. I think he's going to be right.

im glad i didnt do that...

though

there were a few days where i could have used a nickle in that first year....
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Sorry,I don't agree with that generalization at all.I'm an American woman and quite frankly I rock!

Btw,every dude I've come across over the years who went the mail order bride route had some pretty serious liabilties of his own .

Sorry Geekbabe.

But I have to side with us "liability prone" men.

Every women who has ever asked me why I distrust women so much answered the exact same way when I tell them.


Cliff notes:

I distrust women because: (Fill in any number of reasons)
Womans responce: Oh, I am not like that! OR I rock! :p

Result: 2 to 6 months later, they turn out to be EXACTLY like that.

So I do hope you will forgive me if I do not believe you futher than I can see an electron with my naked eye.

And to be fair, yes I may cause them to be like that. But I doubt it. ;)

If one or two relationships go sour after only 6 months then perhaps you just got unlucky,crap happens but if multiple relationships head south after this time frame something's wrong and you are a part of that dynamic.Perhaps looking a bit more at you and what you want out of your relationships and what you bring to the table might be of more use to you than generalizing all women as evil creatures who are not to be trusted.


Btw,I don't know a lot but I know that as a partner I do indeed rock for a whole lot of reasons.
 

acidvoodoo

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Originally posted by: Coquito
Originally posted by: MindStorm
Rachel is a real girl. The list was taken from her website. Rachel is a typical American woman. Keep in mind that she expects everything on the list simply because she has vagina.
5'8? and taller
Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
Handsome
Muscular
Weight depending on height ? not skinny, not fat
Good sense of humor
Dimples
Cute laugh
Sensitive
*Affectionate* in front of friends
Gives me lots of attention
Outgoing
Popular but doesn't know the whole state
Friends with my friends
Nice smile
Straight teeth
No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
Pierced ear(s) if any
Not too many tattoos if any
Likes to cuddle
Likes to party
Takes me out
Grabs my hand to hold
Kisses me unexpectedly
Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
Has a good job
Tells me he misses me when we're not together
Makes me laugh
Open minded
Polite
Holds doors for me
Opens car doors
*Romantic*
Likes all type of music
Likes going to the movies
Talks to his friends about me
Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
Gives massages without me having to ask
Plays with my hair
Calls me to just say hi
Tries not to argue
Apologizes for when he does wrong
Says what he's feeling
Has a car
Has a dog
Has a family that likes me
Compliments me
Is tan
Doesn't curse all the time
Wants to be with me as much as possible
Comes over unexpectedly
Wakes me up with a kiss
Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
*Trustworthy*
Patient
Likes to shop
Has good manners
Doesn't smoke
Occasionally drinks
Athletic
Is on time for dates
Calls back later when he says he will
Lives close to me
Wants to meet my family
Treats me like a princess
Has a cute butt
Good kissable lips
Good kisser
Good memory
Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
Intelligent
Has direction
Creative
Likes everything about me
Committed
*My best friend*
Respectful
Mature
Persistent ? Hard working
Likes walks on the beach
Likes just staying home sometimes
Writes me songs/poems
Likes to dance
Has a sexy voice
Cooks for me
Likes to show me off
Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
Likes to take pictures
Flirts with me in public and in private
Puts up with my mood swings
Comforts me when I'm sad
Doesn't say ?sorry? all the time when it's not needed
Sticks up for me
Likes animals
Sends me flowers for no reason
Ignores my imperfections
Surprises me (good surprises)
Doesn't ever yell at me
Likes picnics
Likes to clean
First to say I Love You
Listens to me
Smells good
*Doesn't lie*
Likes kids
Makes me the center of his world
Not in trouble with the law
Isn't a goody-goody
Doesn't stare at other girls
Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
Doodles our names on paper
Likes to draw
Leaves notes on my car
Let's me go out with him and his friends
Will hang out with me and my friends
Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
Gets jealous but not too jealous
Dependable
Doesn't hang up on me
Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
Calls me cute pet names
Isn't conceited
Isn't a penny-pincher
Likes sports and going to sports events
Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
Doesn't play mind games
Doesn't just think about sex
Cares about world issues
Doesn't make me cry
Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
Isn't shy
Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
Not opinionated
Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
Can spell


she left one out: oh, and please don't be gay this time.


ohhhhhhh man, over on the bodybuilding.com forum the guys found that girls website and posted her list, and like everyone in the forum completely slated her in her guest book, and pointed out her weird face. it was mean, but funny as hell cause so many guys did it
 

DurocShark

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Originally posted by: NightCrawler
A friend got married and bought a house then he finds out that his wife is cheating on him and she won't stop when he confronts her and tells her to stop. They end up getting divored and of course she gets "his" house. This new guy moves in with her and now he is living in a crappy apartment and he has to pay all her bills.

Marriage sucked for him :(

Watch it... the Feminazis are gonna burn you at the stake for telling everyone!

The courts have made marriage total crap. If she lies to you about something crucial to the marriage, cheats on you, etc, you shouldn't owe her a cent. :|
 

KGB1

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Originally posted by: DurocShark
Originally posted by: NightCrawler
A friend got married and bought a house then he finds out that his wife is cheating on him and she won't stop when he confronts her and tells her to stop. They end up getting divored and of course she gets "his" house. This new guy moves in with her and now he is living in a crappy apartment and he has to pay all her bills.

Marriage sucked for him :(

Watch it... the Feminazis are gonna burn you at the stake for telling everyone!

The courts have made marriage total crap. If she lies to you about something crucial to the marriage, cheats on you, etc, you shouldn't owe her a cent. :|

That's a good case for not getting a divorce... or how bias the courts are towards women's favor... but this thread isn't about that. It's about fvcking and kicking american chicks out the back door when you're done with them IF they even give a certain hint of marriage...

NO-MAM :D (Bundy style :p )

 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: KGB
Originally posted by: DurocShark
Originally posted by: NightCrawler
A friend got married and bought a house then he finds out that his wife is cheating on him and she won't stop when he confronts her and tells her to stop. They end up getting divored and of course she gets "his" house. This new guy moves in with her and now he is living in a crappy apartment and he has to pay all her bills.

Marriage sucked for him :(

Watch it... the Feminazis are gonna burn you at the stake for telling everyone!

The courts have made marriage total crap. If she lies to you about something crucial to the marriage, cheats on you, etc, you shouldn't owe her a cent. :|

That's a good case for not getting a divorce... or how bias the courts are towards women's favor... but this thread isn't about that. It's about fvcking and kicking american chicks out the back door when you're done with them IF they even give a certain hint of marriage...

NO-MAM :D (Bundy style :p )

please,half of you couldn't score in a cathouse with a fistful of $100 bills!As far as marriage goes,I wouldn't worry about it much,you dudes are more jaded,bitter and cynical than guys twice your age,no
self respecting young woman would be bothered torturing herself by even considering the idea.
 

OS

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe

please,half of you couldn't score in a cathouse with a fistful of $100 bills!As far as marriage goes,I wouldn't worry about it much,you dudes are more jaded,bitter and cynical than guys twice your age,no
self respecting young woman would be bothered torturing herself by even considering the idea.

As opposed to your wrinkly ass being hot sh*t.


As for the list, it's interesting and of course there's some truth to it, but OTOH, you have the other extreme where girls cling to loser guys and stuff. It goes both ways.

 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

please,half of you couldn't score in a cathouse with a fistful of $100 bills!As far as marriage goes,I wouldn't worry about it much,you dudes are more jaded,bitter and cynical than guys twice your age,no
self respecting young woman would be bothered torturing herself by even considering the idea.

As opposed to your wrinkly ass being hot sh*t.


As for the list, it's interesting and of course there's some truth to it, but OTOH, you have the other extreme where girls cling to loser guys and stuff. It goes both ways.

My response was generated by a pretty negative,hostile post.. like it or not women are members here and we will speak up when we read such stuff.

Oh and yes I am a hot shiat and my ass does just fine for itself :)
 

Kristi2k

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It's sad so many people do not know how to have a rela LOVING relationship. People think when they have sec they "love" the person. Love is not just a warm feeling. Love is comittment, you can't be selfish.
 

GalvanizedYankee

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Been married twice. I bookmarked that site, he is on the money.

60% of marriages ending in divorce is not good odds, but is to be expected
when the goods are odd...:)
 

DOSfan

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
If one or two relationships go sour after only 6 months then perhaps you just got unlucky,crap happens but if multiple relationships head south after this time frame something's wrong and you are a part of that dynamic.Perhaps looking a bit more at you and what you want out of your relationships and what you bring to the table might be of more use to you than generalizing all women as evil creatures who are not to be trusted.


Btw,I don't know a lot but I know that as a partner I do indeed rock for a whole lot of reasons.

Of course, you may be right. I am not foolish enough to think I am absolute.

But before you generalize, let me explain to you that I have spent some 20+ years looking at me, just to try and figure out what might cause this "unlucky streak." And for the record, the 20 years starts when I became interested in women. Not how long I have been alive.

And yes, your responce is a classic too.

Quote one, um, lets just call her a woman. We won't quivel over titles. OVer why I won't have anything to do with her.

"I deepthroat. You do not know what you are missing."

You do epitomize one of the problems with American women. Over inflated sense of self.

Of course, perhaps you are the miracle one of millions who aren't...... But I don't think I care to find out.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
If one or two relationships go sour after only 6 months then perhaps you just got unlucky,crap happens but if multiple relationships head south after this time frame something's wrong and you are a part of that dynamic.Perhaps looking a bit more at you and what you want out of your relationships and what you bring to the table might be of more use to you than generalizing all women as evil creatures who are not to be trusted.


Btw,I don't know a lot but I know that as a partner I do indeed rock for a whole lot of reasons.

Of course, you may be right. I am not foolish enough to think I am absolute.

But before you generalize, let me explain to you that I have spent some 20+ years looking at me, just to try and figure out what might cause this "unlucky streak." And for the record, the 20 years starts when I became interested in women. Not how long I have been alive.

And yes, your responce is a classic too.

Quote one, um, lets just call her a woman. We won't quivel over titles. OVer why I won't have anything to do with her.

"I deepthroat. You do not know what you are missing."

You do epitomize one of the problems with American women. Over inflated sense of self.

Of course, perhaps you are the miracle one of millions who aren't...... But I don't think I care to find out.


Over inflated sense of self? hardly,in fact the folks who love me get mad at me because they feel I don't value myself enough.Btw,you weren't "invited" to find out anything,I'm already taken.
 

DOSfan

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
If one or two relationships go sour after only 6 months then perhaps you just got unlucky,crap happens but if multiple relationships head south after this time frame something's wrong and you are a part of that dynamic.Perhaps looking a bit more at you and what you want out of your relationships and what you bring to the table might be of more use to you than generalizing all women as evil creatures who are not to be trusted.


Btw,I don't know a lot but I know that as a partner I do indeed rock for a whole lot of reasons.

Of course, you may be right. I am not foolish enough to think I am absolute.

But before you generalize, let me explain to you that I have spent some 20+ years looking at me, just to try and figure out what might cause this "unlucky streak." And for the record, the 20 years starts when I became interested in women. Not how long I have been alive.

And yes, your responce is a classic too.

Quote one, um, lets just call her a woman. We won't quivel over titles. OVer why I won't have anything to do with her.

"I deepthroat. You do not know what you are missing."

You do epitomize one of the problems with American women. Over inflated sense of self.

Of course, perhaps you are the miracle one of millions who aren't...... But I don't think I care to find out.


Over inflated sense of self? hardly,in fact the folks who love me get mad at me because they feel I don't value myself enough.Btw,you weren't "invited" to find out anything,I'm already taken.

I normally do not nest quotes this much, but I wanted all the evidence to show itself.

You do not have an over inflated sense of self?

Then why did you automatically assume that my comment about not wanting to find out if you were better than the ?typical? American woman was in anyway related to me thinking I was invited?

Could it have been because I already have judged you as not worthy? (Regardless of my correctness of the judgment.)

Or is it just so you could show us how ?much you rock,? by proving you were already with someone?

And for that matter, does the other party know?
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
If one or two relationships go sour after only 6 months then perhaps you just got unlucky,crap happens but if multiple relationships head south after this time frame something's wrong and you are a part of that dynamic.Perhaps looking a bit more at you and what you want out of your relationships and what you bring to the table might be of more use to you than generalizing all women as evil creatures who are not to be trusted.


Btw,I don't know a lot but I know that as a partner I do indeed rock for a whole lot of reasons.

Of course, you may be right. I am not foolish enough to think I am absolute.

But before you generalize, let me explain to you that I have spent some 20+ years looking at me, just to try and figure out what might cause this "unlucky streak." And for the record, the 20 years starts when I became interested in women. Not how long I have been alive.

And yes, your responce is a classic too.

Quote one, um, lets just call her a woman. We won't quivel over titles. OVer why I won't have anything to do with her.

"I deepthroat. You do not know what you are missing."

You do epitomize one of the problems with American women. Over inflated sense of self.

Of course, perhaps you are the miracle one of millions who aren't...... But I don't think I care to find out.


Over inflated sense of self? hardly,in fact the folks who love me get mad at me because they feel I don't value myself enough.Btw,you weren't "invited" to find out anything,I'm already taken.

I normally do not nest quotes this much, but I wanted all the evidence to show itself.

You do not have an over inflated sense of self?

Then why did you automatically assume that my comment about not wanting to find out if you were better than the ?typical? American woman was in anyway related to me thinking I was invited?

Could it have been because I already have judged you as not worthy? (Regardless of my correctness of the judgment.)

Or is it just so you could show us how ?much you rock,? by proving you were already with someone?

And for that matter, does the other party know?


You're sitting here and telling me that over the course of 20 yrs you can't seem to find a relationship that lasts longer than six months and you cannot for the life of you figure out what part YOU might be playing in that.You then go on to cite as proof that women are horrible an ancedote about some woman bragging to you about her "deep throat" skills and how you don't know what you're missing by passing her by..might I suggest to you that maybe your problem with women might have to do with the type of women you are dealing with,normal women don't respond to a turn down in such a crude,self debasing manner,all your example proves is that you might look at exploring places where you'll meet a better class of woman.

As far as the rest goes,I responded to your other comments as I read them,I have no need to prove my worth to you.
 

DOSfan

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
might I suggest to you that maybe your problem with women might have to do with the type of women you are dealing with,

** Ding ding ding ding **

We have a w1nn4r!!!!!

And since the type of women I am dealing with are American...... That brings us back around the what started this.... this..... "discusion" between us.

Of course, we could generalize further and say East Coast women..... I have not been farther west than Mississippi since I was old enough to be tortured by this desire for women. Choice is yours.

 

PlatinumGold

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you think AMERICAN women are bad. OMFG, try asian girls that were raised here. OMFG, talk about a chip on the shoulders.

seriously, there are a lot of asian guys on AT, no one else noticed this? and i have a lot of close asian-american women friends, and i have 4 asian american female cousins and a sister and in my opinion, they all have major chips on their shoulders.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: DOSfan
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
might I suggest to you that maybe your problem with women might have to do with the type of women you are dealing with,

** Ding ding ding ding **

We have a w1nn4r!!!!!

And since the type of women I am dealing with are American...... That brings us back around the what started this.... this..... "discusion" between us.

Of course, we could generalize further and say East Coast women..... I have not been farther west than Mississippi since I was old enough to be tortured by this desire for women. Choice is yours.

Perhaps my point was worded a tad too delicately.. the only women I can think of who'd respond to a turn down from a guy with a comment about their deep throat abilties are rent by the hour gals,that makes me wonder what types of places you consider as optimal for meeting women.
 

GalvanizedYankee

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Nothing will stop an American woman from getting the last word.

Any response is considered the beginning of a new argument.

At least this banter keeps this thread on the first page for all to bookmark......:wine: