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Why did i ask her

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Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

heh, 99% of girls find you undateable.......that's reassuring 😀
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

i hope HalosPuma is a little more accurate with the numbers 😉😛
 
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

heh, 99% of girls find you undateable.......that's reassuring 😀

But just think...there are..what, 5 billion women on the plant...so that's a lot of women to choose from!
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

i hope HalosPuma is a little more accurate with the numbers 😉😛

He must be a cool dude. Us losers have to go to 100 girls to get one.

😱
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

heh, 99% of girls find you undateable.......that's reassuring 😀

But just think...there are..what, 5 billion women on the plant...so that's a lot of women to choose from!

aren't there like a total of 6 billion people? that gives the 1 billion men A LOT of women to choose from :Q

EDIT: 1 man can have up to 6 women to keep it equal 😛
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

heh, 99% of girls find you undateable.......that's reassuring 😀

But just think...there are..what, 5 billion women on the plant...so that's a lot of women to choose from!

aren't there like a total of 6 billion people? that gives the 1 billion men A LOT of women to choose from :Q

EDIT: 1 man can have up to 6 women to keep it equal 😛

Really? I thought there were like 6 billion in china alone. 😉
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: iamme
:beer: for you.

don't worry about it, buddy. you had the balls to ask her out. just don't act all weird about it around her.

that's the thing...i hope i'll be over it by tommorrow....try avoiding somebody in 6 out of your 8 classes



I wouldn't avoid her, you got to remember even if she rejected you, she's probably flattered you asked.


if you don't let it get to you, things might turn out in lots of good ways you can't see yet.

example- on our 2nd date, my wife(married 18 years, btw) told me she couldn't have a long term relationship with me !

 
Originally posted by: Tom
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: iamme
:beer: for you.

don't worry about it, buddy. you had the balls to ask her out. just don't act all weird about it around her.

that's the thing...i hope i'll be over it by tommorrow....try avoiding somebody in 6 out of your 8 classes



I wouldn't avoid her, you got to remember even if she rejected you, she's probably flattered you asked.


if you don't let it get to you, things might turn out in lots of good ways you can't see yet.

example- on our 2nd date, my wife(married 18 years, btw) told me she couldn't have a long term relationship with me !

lol, well her friend said that the reason may partly be because i guess she likes someone else....who is COMPLETELY opposite of me

Her:~5'4"ish?, jewish, white, but tanned skin, doesn't smoke/drink
Me: 5'5, jewish, white, don't smoke/drink
who she likes: ~5'7-8"ish?, christian, black (nothing against african american people), smokes pot, smokes cigarettes, overall not a very "healthy" person to be with IMHO
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: Tom
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: iamme
:beer: for you.

don't worry about it, buddy. you had the balls to ask her out. just don't act all weird about it around her.

that's the thing...i hope i'll be over it by tommorrow....try avoiding somebody in 6 out of your 8 classes



I wouldn't avoid her, you got to remember even if she rejected you, she's probably flattered you asked.


if you don't let it get to you, things might turn out in lots of good ways you can't see yet.

example- on our 2nd date, my wife(married 18 years, btw) told me she couldn't have a long term relationship with me !

lol, well her friend said that the reason may partly be because i guess she likes someone else....who is COMPLETELY opposite of me

Her:~5'4"ish?, jewish, white, but tanned skin, doesn't smoke/drink
Me: 5'5, jewish, white, don't smoke/drink
who she likes: ~5'7-8"ish?, christian, black (nothing against african american people), smokes pot, smokes cigarettes, overall not a very "healthy" person to be with IMHO

You probably need to get yourself busy and not think of her. Join a gym or try some activities, it'll make you feel a lot better. I bet then you'll probably then know that she made a mistake and that you could do a lot better than her.

I have the biggest heartbreak story of alltime. I was so foolish but I thought I'd do what my heart desires and I was burnt down to the ground. I thought I'd never recover and it took me a year but I did. Now I look back and I remember how dumb I was doing everything that I did and how foolish she was to let me go.

 
i was rejected by a girl... she was my first "attempt"... we had been friends for about a year at that point and I told her I liked her ... she couldn't say the same for me (this is where the white-guy thing about some asian chicks bugs me). Anyway... that was 6 years ago... we stayed friends all the way through and still hung out some Friday nights... and actually attended each other's weddings a month apart this past year (surprise, she married a white dude - but he's real cool - I'm glad for her). Things just happen funnily.

Now you popped your cherry... it's nowhere but uphill from here.
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: pyonir
Ok...so find a new one and ask her out. Figure...1 out of every 100 girls you ask out, is going to say yes. Get started on the century mark.

i hope HalosPuma is a little more accurate with the numbers 😉😛

He must be a cool dude. Us losers have to go to 100 girls to get one.

Confidence, man! When it comes to dating, you have to look at nature's primal urges. Women don't want some loser to date. If you think you are a loser, what do you think the girl will think of you? Now, I'm not saying be an ass or a "player", unless you want a gold-digger or b!tch. And don't drop the things you are doing just so you can spend time chasing after a girl - that's desperation and women don't care for that either. They want a man with goals which means he exerts power. Picture yourself as a lion or tiger stalking your prey. Find what you want and go get it!

Like the other day I met this girl only once in the hallway and all we said was hi and I smiled. Then I saw her again a week later in the same hallway (I guess we have the same schedule), smiled again and asked her out to some coffee and lunch. Told her I couldn't spend too much time right now talking to her because I had some important things to take care of, but I would like to get to know her later. 😉 See (a) confidence; (b) smile; (c) power.
 
At least you asked her, now go find another one to ask.

If they all say no, just realize that you are fugly and not going to get any, ever and try to make your peace with that fact.
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: Tom
Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: iamme
:beer: for you.

don't worry about it, buddy. you had the balls to ask her out. just don't act all weird about it around her.

that's the thing...i hope i'll be over it by tommorrow....try avoiding somebody in 6 out of your 8 classes



I wouldn't avoid her, you got to remember even if she rejected you, she's probably flattered you asked.


if you don't let it get to you, things might turn out in lots of good ways you can't see yet.

example- on our 2nd date, my wife(married 18 years, btw) told me she couldn't have a long term relationship with me !

lol, well her friend said that the reason may partly be because i guess she likes someone else....who is COMPLETELY opposite of me

Her:~5'4"ish?, jewish, white, but tanned skin, doesn't smoke/drink
Me: 5'5, jewish, white, don't smoke/drink
who she likes: ~5'7-8"ish?, christian, black (nothing against african american people), smokes pot, smokes cigarettes, overall not a very "healthy" person to be with IMHO


She got the jungle fever man, you are doomed

jk, atleast you tried. You should of asked her if she wanted to do something when she wasn't busy. If she responded bad to that, then I would be over it.
 
Originally posted by: neonerd
lol, well her friend said that the reason may partly be because i guess she likes someone else....who is COMPLETELY opposite of me

Her:~5'4"ish?, jewish, white, but tanned skin, doesn't smoke/drink
Me: 5'5, jewish, white, don't smoke/drink
who she likes: ~5'7-8"ish?, christian, black (nothing against african american people), smokes pot, smokes cigarettes, overall not a very "healthy" person to be with IMHO
Would be wise to acquaint yourself with the underlying philosophy of this theory.
 
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