Originally posted by: DearQT
Originally posted by: TallBill
Heres the thread
In that picture, my name and photo as well as my "hometown" is posted online. Sp33demon keeps trying to convince me that its unsafe to have our picture and "hometown" posted online because someone is going to steal our identity.
Theres millions of people that you can find their home address and phone number online. Its called a phone book. Second of all, thats not even where either of us live, nor is our information even in a phonebook or online whitepages or anything.
How is someone going to "steal my identity" because they have my picture and name. I've met hundreds of people in real life who know more info and my identity is never stolen.
I may not have his home phone and address just as he doesn't have mine, but what would it matter either way? Nobody is going to steal each others identity.
He even sent me this pm
I try and give you advice, and you act like a d!psh!t, 2 people have PMed me and said it was nice that I was trying to help you out yet you react in a belligerent manner. You talk a big game, but in the end you're just a skinny little man with a chip on his shoulder (do you even weigh 175 lbs with boots on, wet?). When your bank account is cleaned out because someone stole you and your wife's identity, we told you so.
I "talk" big game because its the internet and I can. And yes its "advice" but come on now, arren't we being a tad bit paranoid? Theres thousands of people who respond to spam emails with bank information and password information. Dont you think scammers are going to stick to making money off of them instead of trying to get any of my real info?
Anyways, Sp33demon, your on ignore because I try to come on Anandtech to read what I want and not talk to overparanoid conspiracy theorists. You can chalk it up as a victory if you want. You can take over this thread and flame me if you want. You are the winner. Your the champ, the big man. Whatever. Its arguing in the internet, you can have it.
You need to grow up, Tall Bill! Someone congratulates you and expresses concerns. Rather than show courtesy and say thank you for the advice even if you don't agree with it, you call the person names and act extremely childish. Then you proceed to start another thread in the same negative, pugnacious tone. Did you have a bad week? You need to grow up. If you can't even have a sense of humor, then I wonder what marital life you're threading into.... You speak of him crapping your thread, but what irony! You seem to have done a better job yourself with the somber tone of your thread, dismissing the significance of engagement to you, and starting a fight on much ado about nothing.
On topic without making this about your vendetta with another member: There's every reason to keep your information on the internet private. There's a lot someone could gather about you with information you leave left and right. Do you go to all neighborhoods in your city broadcasting your name, address, all people involved in your life, etc? You would look silly and risk your life too. The same is applicable to the internet. Just giving your name isn't necessarily harmful, but leaving bits and pieces could leave much for someone to work with. There's public records available to anyone. There's tax assessor's record to check for someone's home address if the person owns a home. And you could obtain that just with first name, last name and city, county and state of residence.
A good example is the case of the cookie gesture. The lady's record is public and some stupid immature, nerdy kids got it, published it on the internet and encouraged others to send her threats. She and her SO have been victims of harassment and threats. You may be willing to take that crap, but not everyone is or appreciates it. Some people enjoy the anonymity of the internet and the leeway it affords them. They could talk about anything they so desire, whereas with their true identities and contact information, they couldn't say things for fear of retribution from others in their real lives, or even on the internet.
There's also the female factor. You don't know what rapist, murderer, or whoever else is looking for his prey. Safety and precautions isn't a bad thing, provided not taken to extremity. Some people don't mind these things, but they should respect those who do. To each his/her own.