I'm glad someone brought this up...here is a rational perspective on the situation:
1)You make it sound like the US is some kind of victim attacked by China.Anyone wondered what that plane was doing there?In case you don't know it was SPYING ON CHINA,intercepting their communications.how "legal" is that.The plane crashed because it accidentally got hit by a chinese fighter jet,whose pilot is still missing,so it didn't get attacked or anything.I think any country has a right to defend itself from spying don't you?
2)Why do the chinese hate americans...no it's not because of state-controlled media,it's the same reason most people in this world hate the US:because tehy interfeer everywhere telling countries what to do,not respecting sovereignty etc.
3)International laws-it's nice that you complain about China braking an international law regarding boarding captured planes,however the US breaks international laws it created and signed all the time,the US is above any international law.So don't ask anyone else to respect them,that's called masive hypocrisy.For those who are wondering when it broke international laws,well here are some examples:the invasion of Panama condemned by the whole UN,and the most severe breaking of all,the bombing of sovereign nation Yugoslavia,which practically installed a new world order.
4)Chinese bombing in Belgrade-don't even try and tell me it was a mistake,not even 5-year olds can be fooled by the official explination,which was that the CIA agent in Belgrade "had an outdated city map"(LOL the CIA budget must be too poor to allow them the purchase of new maps)
5)Of course China won't return the plain,they aren't stupid to return the latest military technology without replicating it.
On a final note,the US should learn to stay the hell out of other countries affairs,I hope more and more incidents which damage it will occur in the near future.