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SheHateMe said:
How do you know what white guys "generally" lust after?

and what is a dark dark dark skinned black chick? Please elaborate for the rest of us.

So that's it, black chicks come in light or dark?


LMAO, we have to have a 'fro too? I'm a "dark dark dark skinned" black woman and I don't have a 'fro. My hair is curly and long.



First you say these women don't "count" because they are light skinned. Then you make a comment about them not having a 'fro and having hair like a white woman. Any other generalizations you want to get out about black women?

What is hair like "a white woman"? Is that straight hair? Managable hair? ....Not "black" hair, huh?

We come in different shapes, sizes, colors, and hair textures.

Fuck you very much, asshole.
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Obviously if they're attractive then they're not really black. That seems to be where he's going with this.

Nowhere in the original post or in the stats posted from OKcupid is any distinction made between dark and light skinned black women.
 
I don't know whats more funny. His hasty generalization of 70% of black women he thinks he's observed or the horrible books he's trying to sell in the right column of his blog.
 
HendrixFan said:
I can find similar blogs that state all kinds of "truth". Jews, blacks, gays, etc, etc, etc.
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See my edit new links from ABC News and NBC News above. Not blogs. And those two links reinforce that black guy said, he was not just blowing out smoke out of his butt.

One recent day at Dr. Natalie Carroll's OB-GYN practice, located inside a low-income apartment complex tucked between a gas station and a freeway, 12 pregnant black women come for consultations. Some bring their children or their mothers. Only one brings a husband.
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Do you want to date those?
 
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"Many women would do well to expand their options in the same way people of other races have, and look beyond black men in their search for a partner," Stanford law professor Ralph Richard Banks told "Nightline." "Black women are the most segregated group in our society when it comes to relationships."
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"There's a social catastrophe going on in terms of black men," he said. "Imprisonment numbers, unemployment numbers, under-performance academically, these are crisis not just for African-Americans, but for the nation."
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In 2009 "Nightline" spoke with four single, African-American professional women in Atlanta about the relative difficulty they and others like them had finding husbands. One of them called it the "black girl curse." Almost two years later, they're still dating, but no one has put a ring on it.
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"Women are looking for men that don't exist," Izrael said at the time. "They're looking for this picture-perfect archetype."
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The general consensus among the black men who were on that panel: black women need to scale down expectations and stop being so picky. Misguided advice, according to Banks.
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Yep, pretty incriminating evidence there. :awe:


In summary, the guy covered in the ABC link pretty much is trying to say this:

"Interacial marriages have actually been rising for everyone," Banks said. "Black women have fought the good fight. They have engaged in what one friend described as a 'noble effort,' trying to lift black men. That's praiseworthy, but at the same time we should recognize that, that strategy hasn't really worked."
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So, basically...black women are being too picky and many don't consider dating non-black males. Also, we are being crippled in our efforts to find a good man because black men aren't shit these days and there aren't enough good black men to go around. We've been fighting in a crowded parking lot for too few parking spaces and its time for us to find somewhere else to park...

and I agree with that because I've experienced that.
 
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Svnla said:
See my edit new links from ABC News and NBC News above. Not blogs. And those two links reinforce that black guy said, he was not just blowing out smoke out of his butt.



Do you want to date those?
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Women with kids? I'm 32 and never been married. It comes with the territory.
 
QueBert said:
Dirk's wife is from Kenya, she doesn't look anything but black. Robin's wife is half white but she still looks black. The topic is black females and they posted pictures of 2 black females and you say "sorry not valid" Blacks females don't look 1 certain way, the diversity's one reason guys like me like them so much. So, yes the 2 pics posted absolutely have a place in this thread. And please explain to me what the fuck a black woman's suppose to look like if those 2 aren't fair comparisons. Because them being black obviously isn't good enough for you, they need to look a certain way too right??

lol I love ATOT so many chuckles here.
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Dirk's wife is half Swedish. Not that it matters.
 
Interracial babies = higher medical cost. White/black/brown babies have too many health issues. They may look superior on the outside, but their genes are inferior. No thanks.
 
Baked said:
Interracial babies = higher medical cost. White/black/brown babies have too many health issues. They may look superior on the outside, but their genes are inferior. No thanks.
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Link?

The further you go outside your family tree, the less likelihood of genetic problems.
 
Baked said:
Interracial babies = higher medical cost. White/black/brown babies have too many health issues. They may look superior on the outside, but their genes are inferior. No thanks.
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Yea, we're going to need to see a source. Thanks.

And what health issues are you talking about? Inferior Genes?

PLEASE post some sources.
 
Baked said:
Interracial babies = higher medical cost. White/black/brown babies have too many health issues. They may look superior on the outside, but their genes are inferior. No thanks.
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nice. you caught 4 with that troll trap.
 
Not attracted to dark skin black women, although one of my really good friends is one and I get the feeling that she'd like to take things further if I didn't have a g/f (white, blonde btw). Have dated light skin women, but only 2 out of 55+ for a <5% rate. FWIW, everyone has their preferences of attraction and it is what it is, there is no wrong or right or racist or w/e the fuck people are talking about in this thread.

Honestly we just interviewed a female for position xyz and most of the guys thought she was meh. I thought she was hot as hell, mainly because female xyz's are rare in my profession and that's a huge turn on in itself. If I met a dark skin woman with the same xyz interests that I'm passionate about, then I'd give it a chance if I was single. Talking dirty = talking nerdy for me.
 
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Only thing I could think of is if lots of people with the sickle cell trait married people with the cystic fibrosis trait you would have lots of babies with the potential to give their children two unfortunate genetic health conditions.
 
I saw an English couple last summer, the father was white and a typical englishman, the woman was black but not obese although not thin. The kids were of a slightly fairer shade of black than the mother.
 
Yongsta said:
I tried out that okcupid app, I would say only 2-3% of the userbase were Asian, it kind of skews things.
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You're probably on to something, at any AT&T or Verizon store the single best selling phone will be the iPhone, but since they have 20 different Android phones next to it, the Android will overall sell better. I would be willing to bet money that if a site was 33% white wemens, 33% Asian wemens & 33% black wemens the numbers of who contacted who would be much closer. A lot of men on those sites browse around, and if 90 out of every 100 profiles are white females I wonder who will get contacted more.
 
And I dunno if this affects the statistics , but I just signed up for OKcupid to see what it was about. In my area about 86% of the black females in my area out of the 1st 100 it brought up "Replies very selectively" or "replies selectively" Where for white wemens it's almost the exact opposite where most "replies often"

When it sounds like they won't even talk to you before you even view the profile, I wouldn't contact them either.
 
QueBert said:
Dirk's wife is from Kenya, she doesn't look anything but black. Robin's wife is half white but she still looks black. The topic is black females and they posted pictures of 2 black females and you say "sorry not valid" Blacks females don't look 1 certain way, the diversity's one reason guys like me like them so much. So, yes the 2 pics posted absolutely have a place in this thread. And please explain to me what the fuck a black woman's suppose to look like if those 2 aren't fair comparisons. Because them being black obviously isn't good enough for you, they need to look a certain way too right??

lol I love ATOT so many chuckles here.
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How does half black = black?
 
HamburgerBoy said:
How does half black = black?
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Because she associates herself as being black, and every KKK redneck in the USA wouldn't acknowledge her Caucasian side for a second. I know maybe 20 mixed females, and the majority consider themselves black. The few who don't consider themselves mixed, none of them refer to themselves as Caucasian. Hell, Kimora Lee calls herself a black woman in every interview I've seen it brought up. And until I heard her say it I had no idea she was anything but Asian. And remember, you don't have to even be black to be considered black. I posted a thread a few months ago saying how much I like Zoe Saldana, some maroon replied "that's because she's black and you like black females" And she's not even black. And I know he's not the the only one who thinks like that, so I'd say actually being 1/2 black indeed makes you black


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