Sticking with the real motherboards that you could actually buy today, lets look at the various options, beginning with memory types...
option 1-most memory bandwidth- rdram pc1066. Not really available but apparently Samsung pc800 will work at pc1066...sometimes.
option 2-next best- DDR400. available, but pricey.
option 3-next -DDR333, easy to get, about the same price as next option. Unlike next option, it's very likely to overclock .
option 4-last, but almost the same as option 3, rdram pc800
Now, motherboards that use the different memory types...
option 1-You can't get a real pc1066 rdram motherboard yet. With luck or considerable hassle, and enough money, you can get something that will work. Asus P4t-e or Abit TH7ii.
option 2- buy a SiS645dx based Asus P4s533 right now, has a 3:6 divider so you don't even have to overclock to use DDR400. Or if you are overclocking your cpu enough you can get to DDR400 using an older SiS645 motherboard or some Intel i845 motherboards. The Epox 4BDA is one Intel i845 based motherboard that can without an insane cpu overclock. Sis645 boards include $70 boards like MSI 645 Ultra and Gigabyte 8srx, which makes them the lowest cost option, and, in my experience anyway, there isn't any penalty performance-wise or stability-wise in going with a SiS645 solution.
options 3 and 4, lots of motherboards that can use these options.
So bottom line is, if money is less important than absolute best performance, put together a 533fsb pc1066 rdram system.
If money is really critical the $70 Sis645 boards are a great bargain.
In between, for about $100 you can get either the Epox 4BDA (Intel i845) or the Asus P4s533(Sis645dx). The Epox's advantage is it has an Intel chipset, the Asus' advantage is the 3:6 ratio and a built-in nic.