<< Or, really nice guys who are just boys inside. They are nice because they are scared to not be. >>
Hey! What's wrong with those types? There is a difference between being nice because a person is scared not to be and being nice because it is in a person's nature. The former suggests the person really wants to be mean, but doesn't have the stomach for it. The latter suggests the person does not want to be mean because...because its not right!
I'm really a 30...uh...crap...Ok, I'm actually a 31 year-old (I keep forgetting my B-Day was last month) kid at heart. That certainly doesn't mean I won't take charge when its needed, or that I won't stand-up for myself, or that I don't like a little rough sex now and then (although I won't initiate the rough part because its just not me). ;-)
I'm not the mountain-climbing, sky-diving, decathalon entering type, but I'm a big DIY'er and yes I do actually finish a project before starting four others. My last girlfriend complained because when I start something I don't quit until the job is finished. Oh, that was just fine in the bedroom, "incredible" I think was the word she used, but it was some big problem when I would work on the car from early AM to late PM.
You can't have it all ways, girls! You can't just 'turn-on' certain characteristics when its to your advantage to do so, then expect us to be someone different when it suits you. I do like to lounge around, though. hehe
I would prefer to lounge around with my girl, but if I have to, I'll lounge around all by myself.