When dating a new girl/guy, do you tell the real number of people you have been with?

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i cut the number by about 60%...

and just so i don't leave myself open for an easy one for you smartasses, means its .4 :p
 

jaedaliu

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i cut the number by about 60%...

and just so i don't leave myself open for an easy one for you smartasses, means its .4 :p

what, never tried lefty?

(had to try, you're asking for it right there)
 

jpeyton

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I typically don't date the kind of people who ask dumb questions like that.

Who cares how many I've been with, or how many you've been with; we're with each other right now, and that's what matters.

The only time I may ask how many previous partners someone has had is if I think they are completely clueless about safe sex.
 

91TTZ

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I tell the truth if they ask. I have nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm not a liar.

That's the good thing about NOT being a whore... you can tell the truth and still not look bad.
 
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Originally posted by: jaedaliu
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i cut the number by about 60%...

and just so i don't leave myself open for an easy one for you smartasses, means its .4 :p

what, never tried lefty?

(had to try, you're asking for it right there)

damn...i still caught one :(
 

scorpmatt

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37! yeah, I like the guy and eventually I go down on him. I can't beleive it! Everytime I kiss you and taste 36 other guys.
 

Bryophyte

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The number is none of their business. If someone wanted to only date a virgin, they should say that up front, not ask you how many people you've had sex with. The matter of STDs should be addressed before becoming intimate, though, as well as your feelings about unplanned pregnancy.
 

ggnl

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
I tell the truth if they ask. I have nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm not a liar.

That's the good thing about NOT being a whore... you can tell the truth and still not look bad.

Same.

:thumbsup: for keeping the moral high ground.
 

HumblePie

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Ummm.. who gets asked these questions by the opposite sex??? If so, you need to find a better calibre of dates.
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Does it count if you don't know their names?

Heheheh... I count them.

And yes, I do. I even include the ones that didn't include any vaginal/anal penetration.
 

Safeway

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If you think it might lead somewhere, then yes. You don't want her to know you lied about that from the very beginning when you start mentioning addition girls.
 

meltdown75

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yeah... everyone here lies about how many women they've been with... :roll:

they say zero when the number is actually NEGATIVE 3. i know, sounds crazy, but OTers managed to actually negatively sleep with women. they're THAT lame.
 
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Originally posted by: HumblePie
Ummm.. who gets asked these questions by the opposite sex??? If so, you need to find a better calibre of dates.

haven't been asked, i was just curious.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Does it count if you don't know their names?

Heheheh... I count them.

And yes, I do. I even include the ones that didn't include any vaginal/anal penetration.

What about a 4-some. What if you only did stuff with 1 of the 3 other people. Do those other two count?