Originally posted by: eskimospy
If an entire state was significantly more bald than the rest of the country and it could be traced to some lifestyle choice, I would most certainly view it as a valid criticism, and the health of a society as it relates to weight is most certainly a mixture of weight and politics, and it has every place here.
People who are obese are unattractive to me. A state that has a rampant obesity problem is somewhere I would like to avoid. (although in the US now that's pretty hard to do). I'm not disgusted by individuals who are overweight, in fact my brother weighs about 350 pounds. It is a health problem for society and something I find unattractive however, and so I most certainly view it as a negative aspect of an area.
I think you are confusing calling a person fat as some sort of attack on their character, with me calling a state fat because their lifestyle encourages it. Individual people can have great difficulty controlling their weight due to genetics, and I sympathize. Texas as a state does not have a genetic obesity problem that I am aware of.
I have no problem with you including weight in your decision who to date because you find it aesthetically unattractive. I do have a problem when you are cruel, when you elevate weight to the same sort of issue as the character flaws I listed for Rush as an example, when you treat it as the same sort of serious character flaw as dishonesty and such.
In short, weight *has no legitimate place being listed among those other adjectives used to attack someone for being a horrible person*. It's wrong and cruel. While people have *some* more control over weight than, say, race, the old King adage about 'character, not color of their skin' applies equally to 'character, not quantity of their skin'. The difference in their having some control has *nothing* to do with its inappropriateness to lump it in with the sort of character attacks I mentioned.
It really is another form of bigotry, IMO, when I see people change 'dishonest, evil Rush' to 'fat f*** dishonest, evil Rush'. Just as we've noted that blacks who have been victims of bigotry can be bigots against gays and not get the hypocrisy, you are appearing to me to be someone who has had solid values against bigotry on race and sexual orientation but may have a blind spot of bigotry on weight - not only the 'legitimate' issues of 'health' but something that goes further.
If you didn't, you would not be responding as you are to my taking issue with the lumping of weight with the sort of character flaws Rush is attacked for. You would be agreeing wholeheartedly and drawing a clear line between what is and is not appropriate, but that's not what I'm seeing. Your brother's weight is exactly the 'some of my best friends are black' defense by racists. I've rarely had much luck alerting someone to a type of bigotry they are affected by; I suspect my chances are far better with you than with most people.
When you say you see some connection between weight and politics, I don't agree. One of the most caring, humane people I've known was the chairman of a philosophy department and a Universal Unitarian minister with a heart as big as his huge body. Hitler was not overweight. There do seem to be some correlations between red states and obesity, but I think if you look further you will find another explanation than politics being a factor in the *cause* of the weight, it's a 'correlation is not causation' issue.
If you said you would not vote for a great politician with the right positions because he is physicially unattractive, is that a statement you would be proud to make, one that you think makes any sense? If Hitler had been fat, do you think it would have made any sense to link his weight to his evil - 'that fat evil Hitler'? No, these don't make any sense. You can't defend them by pointing out that weight is a legitimate issue; it is, but not in these ways.
I don't mind at all even you having a problem with an area with high obesity, for the cultural/lifestyle implications it represents.
My issue is when you cross the line and include weight with character issues. It's pretty analogous to smoking. Does the fact that Obama smoked make him deserving of the same sort of character attacks as Rush Limbaugh? If he still smoked, would it? Smoking is a legitimate issue - from the addiction to the nature of how almost all smokers get started as teens to the health policies. But it doesn't really belong in the list of Rush adjectives, and weight even less so. Fat is the remaining version of the N-word, a handy epithet.}
Edit: I, too, was already writing this before seeing CC's post, and will leave it as this, but if I see more use of weight in political attacks, that would seem to beg a reply.