What's your age and are you a virgin? Poll!

[zinfamous]

Damn I have a lot of sisters that I didn't know about!

it was probably the first response. You know, the dude that nailed your mom.

 

[Locut0s]

25 and not a virgin (lost at 18). I don't sleep around a lot and I definitely agree that being with someone truly special, having a woman who is also a true friend, beats the hell out of just busting a nut in and old wet hole. However I really think that if you're over 22 and haven't had sex then you need to just get out and have a whack at any old female, because it's really easy to lose perspective. Just look at a guy like TridenT - he has completely lost perspective on sex and thinks that banging a hotty is the one thing that will fulfill his life.

I think TridenT has other issues going on besides this as well. I'm sure he will never tell us what the real reason is that he's as bitter as he is but I'd suspect there are other reasons. I'm in the same position as him in this regard or worse and I've turned out "relatively" OK. But then I'm open about the reasons I am where I am, social anxiety, depression etc etc...

 

[Riceninja]

It was a pretty glorious moment indeed. I'm telling you man, Yaletown Brewery after 11:30pm on a Friday/Saturday = Gold .

and here i thought you were a sandbar regular :sneaky:

 

[TheVrolok]

Voted wrong.. oops. 25-29 non-virgin.

 

[JMapleton]

Sir, what you need....is a whore.

I can honestly say I wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with. Put me in a room with a whore and I assure you, I couldn't do. It would be like putting a gay guy in a room with Jessica Alba. Just nothing.

 

[GodlessAstronomer]

I can honestly say I wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with. Put me in a room with a whore and I assure you, I couldn't do. It would be like putting a gay guy in a room with Jessica Alba. Just nothing.

Then you have genuine psychological issues. I'm not trying to be a dick, but I am serious.

 

[TheVrolok]

I can honestly say I wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with. Put me in a room with a whore and I assure you, I couldn't do. It would be like putting a gay guy in a room with Jessica Alba. Just nothing.

I call shens. Physiology is physiology.

 

[TallBill]

Ok I'll bite, I am. I'm 27.

I think I have a very different attitude than most on here. I am not interested in a one night stand or just screwing around. I've had more than my fair share of girls throwing themselves at me for that. And the girls I have had relationships with were the "nice girls" who want to wait until their married. I don't date slutty girls and I'm not interested in hurting any girl's feelings by just kicking them to the curb after sleeping with them.

I don't look at it as a big deal. I look incredibly young for my age and I'm pretty good looking so I feel like if I ever do want to "enjoy" that aspect of my life I can at a later date and still date much younger girls. For most guys once they hit their late 20s they begin to age and I guess they feel rushed to "enjoy" younger girls as much as possible before their selection is limited to "aged" women. I own a business that may become successful very soon and I will then have the freedom to spend with the other sex, but I would rather work and focus on that right now. The reward will be much great to be rich and being able to date attractive girls than just do what most do (screw everything that breathes while you're young). But otherwise, I'm happy where I'm at.

Ok, make fun.

Having sex is better than having money I'm doing pretty well financially right now and I had a hell of a lot more fun when I worked less and played more. Then again, I still get laid often enough.

 

[JMapleton]

I call shens. Physiology is physiology.

Not always. Psychology can trump physiology. I've dated girls who if I posted a pic on ATOT most people would think she's not attractive at all, in fact even ugly, but because I had such strong feelings for I would get so turned on around them it was almost embarrassing.

But porn mags and the like, when I see them it's just like, "bleh."

 

[zinfamous]

I can honestly say I wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with. Put me in a room with a whore and I assure you, I couldn't do. It would be like putting a gay guy in a room with Jessica Alba. Just nothing.

A real whore will get you up, I assure you. Honestly, I ahve no experience with whores, but I tend to think that anyone that excels at their profession, knows what they are doing.

I have known some slutty women, been to enough strip clubs, to know that this belief you have in yourself will take about 5 minutes to topple, ....then rise.



eh, maybe you should start at a nice strip club. seriously.

 

[zerocool84]

Not always. Psychology can trump physiology. I've dated girls who if I posted a pic on ATOT most people would think she's not attractive at all, in fact even ugly, but because I had such strong feelings for I would get so turned on around them it was almost embarrassing.

But porn mags and the like, when I see them it's just like, "bleh."

So basically you're a woman cus you have zero physical attraction to any women you've been with but how do you even know what getting turned on is?

 

[TheVrolok]

Not always. Psychology can trump physiology. I've dated girls who if I posted a pic on ATOT most people would think she's not attractive at all, in fact even ugly, but because I had such strong feelings for I would get so turned on around them it was almost embarrassing.

But porn mags and the like, when I see them it's just like, "bleh."

I again call shens. Sure you can nail ugly chicks, that's exactly what I mean by physiology. If you had a woman physically stimulating you in any normal situation, you'd be at full attention. It's just the way it is.

 

[RocksteadyDotNet]

I can honestly say I wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with. Put me in a room with a whore and I assure you, I couldn't do. It would be like putting a gay guy in a room with Jessica Alba. Just nothing.

You are in mega, mega denial.

You're trying to convince yourself that you've had an opportunity to have sex, but didnt take it.

That's total bullshit, you're just a loser. So you make up this shit about "wouldn't be able to "get it up" for a girl I wasn't deeply in love with."

 

[JMapleton]

So basically you're a woman cus you have zero physical attraction to any women you've been with but how do you even know what getting turned on is?

Let me explain. I make a lot of assumptions about girls when I first see them. I'm physically attracted to a girl when a girl appears to be "my type," as in, I think their personality, based on their physical appearance (I go for a certain type) or demeanor. Certain people of certain personalities and "types" just have different "looks." I can spot "my type" a mile away and I'm usually immediately attracted to them because I go on the assumption that they're personality/quality wise my type. If it turns out I'm wrong, most of the physical attraction disappears.

I can be turned on by a girl within seconds, but it can go away in seconds if I realize my assumptions are wrong.

 

[TallBill]

Let me explain. I make a lot of assumptions about girls when I first see them. I'm physically attracted to a girl when a girl appears to be "my type," as in, I think their personality, based on their physical appearance (I go for a certain type) or demeanor. Certain people of certain personalities and "types" just have different "looks." I can spot "my type" a mile away and I'm usually immediately attracted to them because I go on the assumption that they're personality/quality wise my type. If it turns out I'm wrong, most of the physical attraction disappears.

I can be turned on by a girl within seconds, but it can go away in seconds if I realize my assumptions are wrong.

How do you know what your type is if you've never been with a woman?

 

[zinfamous]

Let me explain. I make a lot of assumptions about girls when I first see them. I'm physically attracted to a girl when a girl appears to be "my type," as in, I think their personality, based on their physical appearance (I go for a certain type) or demeanor. Certain people of certain personalities and "types" just have different "looks." I can spot "my type" a mile away and I'm usually immediately attracted to them because I go on the assumption that they're personality/quality wise my type. If it turns out I'm wrong, most of the physical attraction disappears.

I can be turned on by a girl within seconds, but it can go away in seconds if I realize my assumptions are wrong.

OK, so you go for the ugly chicks but can't get laid, and TridenT is the dude that will only tolerate a model (and doesn't deserve such) and can't get laid.

wtf is with you people? None of you have a fucking clue.

 

[InflatableBuddha]

and here i thought you were a sandbar regular :sneaky:

:whiste:

Actually my buddy was going on and on about how awesome the cougars are at Sandbar. Haven't gone there yet somehow. Must make that a priority.

 

[JMapleton]

You're trying to convince yourself that you've had an opportunity to have sex, but didnt take it.

I don't know why you would bother posting this. It's an unprovable slander.

I can assure you, dozens of girls have tried (and failed) to get in my expensive pants. Some incredibly recently. I can say this but cannot prove it. You know this, but post your slander knowing I have no way to prove you wrong. What's the point? Believe me or don't. Your choice, I couldn't care less.

 

[TheVrolok]

Let me explain. I make a lot of assumptions about girls when I first see them. I'm physically attracted to a girl when a girl appears to be "my type," as in, I think their personality, based on their physical appearance (I go for a certain type) or demeanor. Certain people of certain personalities and "types" just have different "looks." I can spot "my type" a mile away and I'm usually immediately attracted to them because I go on the assumption that they're personality/quality wise my type. If it turns out I'm wrong, most of the physical attraction disappears.

You are not unique, everyone does this. There are absolutely links between perceived physical attractiveness and perceived qualities of that person. That said, you will still be able to nail a girl who isn't "your type." All the girls that I've dated seriously are very, very similar - my type; but I've still slept with woman who were nothing like that. You can do it, too.

 

[JMapleton]

How do you know what your type is if you've never been with a woman?

Not having had sex does not equal "not having been with a women." I've been in many relationships. Almost every girl I've been with just doesn't put out is the honest truth.

 

[InflatableBuddha]

on the other hand, you're old enough that a crash course straight to 10 is probably the best way to jump into it. once you get it over with, you'll be much more relaxed and less pressured by steps 1-9

KT and buddha are right. dont worry about girls not wanting it because youre not experienced. its vancouver. they're more likely to jump you just to claim your first.

So true. Just have to get the first one out of the way.

This gives me a great idea - the next AT meetup needs to be you, me, KT and Locut0s at Sandbar one night to go cougar hunting :awe:.

And I'll invite silverpig to run interference on any would-be cockblockers :sneaky:.

 

[RocksteadyDotNet]

I don't know why you would bother posting this. It's an unprovable slander.

I can assure you, dozens of girls have tried (and failed) to get in my expensive pants. Some incredibly recently. I can say this but cannot prove it. You know this, but post your slander knowing I have no way to prove you wrong. What's the point? Believe me or don't. Your choice, I couldn't care less.

I know for a fact that you're totally lying. Though you might actually believe the lie.

If you actually knew women you wouldn't tell such blatant bullshit.

 

[Riceninja]

Not having had sex does not equal "not having been with a women." I've been in many relationships. Almost every girl I've been with just doesn't put out is the honest truth.

christ, tell me where you find these chicks so ill know where to avoid.

and "been with a woman" is colloquial for sex. everyone knows this.

 

[Locut0s]

So true. Just have to get the first one out of the way.

This gives me a great idea - the next AT meetup needs to be you, me, KT and Locut0s at Sandbar one night to go cougar hunting :awe:.

And I'll invite silverpig to run interference on any would-be cockblockers :sneaky:.

LOL Uhh no guys I'll never go to another meetup if this turns out to be the case. D: Lets just keep these meetups beer, and food related, etc.

 

[Dominato3r]

These Vancouver guys think they're nuts.