What's your age and are you a virgin? Poll!

[IronWing]

Don't forget the fancy jeans.

I never read the threads threads. I tend to shop at surplus stores and thrift shops and never have a clue what anyone is talking about wrt to clothes. Do they fit? Do they smell too bad? I'm set for the day.

 

[pcgeek11]

Ok I'll bite, I am. I'm 27.

I think I have a very different attitude than most on here. I am not interested in a one night stand or just screwing around. I've had more than my fair share of girls throwing themselves at me for that. And the girls I have had relationships with were the "nice girls" who want to wait until their married. I don't date slutty girls and I'm not interested in hurting any girl's feelings by just kicking them to the curb after sleeping with them.

I don't look at it as a big deal. I look incredibly young for my age and I'm pretty good looking so I feel like if I ever do want to "enjoy" that aspect of my life I can at a later date and still date much younger girls. For most guys once they hit their late 20s they begin to age and I guess they feel rushed to "enjoy" younger girls as much as possible because their selection is limited to "aged" women. I own a business that may become successful very soon and I will then have the freedom to spend with the other sex, but I would rather work and focus on that right now. The reward will be much great to be rich and being able to date attractive girls than just do what most do (screw everything that breathes while you're young). But otherwise, I'm happy where I'm at.

Ok, make fun.

We don't have to you already made it pretty funny. Late 20's = Aged women. Funny!

 

[JMapleton]

Have you kissed a girl?

Yes, but I have very little experience really "making out" as you'd call it. The girls I date just aren't interested in that. I've always been attracted to kinda nerdy and frankly "sexually borin" girls, so they're never into that.

 

[lxskllr]

I never read the threads threads. I tend to shop at surplus stores and thrift shops and never have a clue what anyone is talking about wrt to clothes. Do they fit? Do they smell too bad? I'm set for the day.

:^D

That's my clothing strategy too.

 

[JMapleton]

We don't have to you already made it pretty funny. Late 20's = Aged women. Funny!

I did not mean that. I meant your late 20s is the last chance you have to date "young women," when you get to your 30s, then you more or less become aged.

Don't get me wrong, lot of hot girls in their 30s and up, but there isn't much substitute for a younger girl, when referring to the physically aspect.

 

[KeithTalent]

I think I have a very different attitude than most on here. I am not interested in a one night stand or just screwing around. I've had more than my fair share of girls throwing themselves at me for that. And the girls I have had relationships with were the "nice girls" who want to wait until their married. I don't date slutty girls and I'm not interested in hurting any girl's feelings by just kicking them to the curb after sleeping with them.

That's what virgins always say! "I've had plenty of opportunities".

Seriously though, whatever works for you. These days, if you really want it, you can easily go out and get it, if you don't and want to wait for that special someone, well more power to you. :thumbsup:

Me: Not a Virgin. 30-39

KT

 

[JMapleton]

Seriously though, whatever works for you. These days, if you really want it, you can easily go out and get it, if you don't and want to wait for that special someone, well more power to you. :thumbsup:

That's one thing that surprised me. When I was in high school, it was damn near impossible to get laid. Now I'm an adult I'm shocked at how much people sleep around. It's crazy easy to get laid these days. The first few times my buddies had to clue me in telling me, "dude, she's trying to get in your pants." I had no clue. I guess that made me want to have sex even less, I kept imagining how many other dudes these girls have slept with.

 

[zerocool84]

Ok I'll bite, I am. I'm 27.

I think I have a very different attitude than most on here. I am not interested in a one night stand or just screwing around. I've had more than my fair share of girls throwing themselves at me for that. And the girls I have had relationships with were the "nice girls" who want to wait until their married. I don't date slutty girls and I'm not interested in hurting any girl's feelings by just kicking them to the curb after sleeping with them.

I don't look at it as a big deal. I look incredibly young for my age and I'm pretty good looking so I feel like if I ever do want to "enjoy" that aspect of my life I can at a later date and still date much younger girls. For most guys once they hit their late 20s they begin to age and I guess they feel rushed to "enjoy" younger girls as much as possible before their selection is limited to "aged" women. I own a business that may become successful very soon and I will then have the freedom to spend with the other sex, but I would rather work and focus on that right now. The reward will be much great to be rich and being able to date attractive girls than just do what most do (screw everything that breathes while you're young). But otherwise, I'm happy where I'm at.

Ok, make fun.

Kinda sad the way you seem to look at girls. You don't need to date a slutty girl to have had sex by your late 20's or screw anything that breathes. Also if you feel you need to kick girls to the curb right after you have sex with them then you have some other issues. You look at the opposite sex in a bad way. I'm glad I'd never think like that.

 

[InflatableBuddha]

lol. Seriously though IB I count you as a friend, seriously I do, but we are different types of people on this really. You are a player type, sort of . I'm not, I'd just like to meet some nice girl to share my time with, a girl friend with an emphasis on the FRIEND. That doesn't mean I want someone fugly or asexual D: and yeah sure the hormons are at play and "getting laid" is also right up there in my mind as well but that's not the overriding thing.

Lulz, I am not a player dude. Read my journal (link in my L&R thread, or PM me). I had an amazingly fun time doing approaches over the weekend, and yes there was a makeout, and some dirty dancing with multiple cougars involved, but no sex. And you know what, I don't give a shit because I'm having FUN. The women and the guys around me were having fun too.

As I hone my skills, the hookups will come. And they will be more fun than the sex I've had before. I'll get into another relationship when I'm ready for it. Process over results, and always focused on giving, not taking.

 

[JMapleton]

Kinda sad the way you seem to look at girls. You don't need to date a slutty girl to have had sex by your late 20's or screw anything that breathes. Also if you feel you need to kick girls to the curb right after you have sex with them then you have some other issues. You look at the opposite sex in a bad way. I'm glad I'd never think like that.

I'm referring to casual sex when I spoke of that. I've never been in a long long term relationship. I guess it view it as black and white. There is either dirty casual sex or the "sex of my dreams with the girl of my dreams." The in between just confuses me.

 

[InflatableBuddha]

Kinda sad the way you seem to look at girls. You don't need to date a slutty girl to have had sex by your late 20's or screw anything that breathes. Also if you feel you need to kick girls to the curb right after you have sex with them then you have some other issues. You look at the opposite sex in a bad way. I'm glad I'd never think like that.

This. Dude has no respect for women, seriously.

Moreover, he's insanely clueless if he thinks it's impossible to hook up with younger girls once you're over 30. Or that you need to be rich to do it.

And focusing on business at the expense of his social life is not only a cop-out, it's ill-advised.

However, given his inexperience, I can see how his mindset is like that.

 

[KeithTalent]

That's one thing that surprised me. When I was in high school, it was damn near impossible to get laid. Now I'm an adult I'm shocked at how much people sleep around. It's crazy easy to get laid these days. The first few times my buddies had to clue me in telling me, "dude, she's trying to get in your pants." I had no clue. I guess that made me want to have sex even less, I kept imagining how many other dudes these girls have slept with.

Yep, when I was in high school, heck even in University (less so) way back when, it was much more difficult. These days you can walk down the street with your pants around your ankles and you'll eventually just fall into someone. I think sex is just not a big thing these days; not sure if that is good or bad. :hmm:

KT

 

[ShawnD1]

Have you kissed a girl?

I kissed a girl and I liked it.

 

[Riceninja]

That's what virgins always say! "I've had plenty of opportunities".

Seriously though, whatever works for you. These days, if you really want it, you can easily go out and get it, if you don't and want to wait for that special someone, well more power to you. :thumbsup:

Me: Not a Virgin. 30-39

KT

damn, you're aging well for a white guy. i thought youd be 25 max

 

[zinfamous]

not a virgin / 12 / your 6 year-old sister.

 

[Locut0s]

Lulz, I am not a player dude. Read my journal (link in my L&R thread, or PM me). I had an amazingly fun time doing approaches over the weekend, and yes there was a makeout, and some dirty dancing with multiple cougars involved, but no sex. And you know what, I don't give a shit because I'm having FUN. The women and the guys around me were having fun too.

As I hone my skills, the hookups will come. And they will be more fun than the sex I've had before. I'll get into another relationship when I'm ready for it. Process over results, and always focused on giving, not taking.

Ok my bad

Another reason though why I'd just want to be friends first with a girl is well... how to put this... sex is sort of step 10. Kind of need to practice steps 1-9 first a bit. Not many girls are going to want to be with you if you've never had any experience, like me, even hanging out with girls in the first place. Like step 1. Or step 0.5.

 

[Locut0s]

not a virgin / 12 / your 6 year-old sister.

Damn I have a lot of sisters that I didn't know about!

 

[KeithTalent]

Lulz, I am not a player dude. Read my journal (link in my L&R thread, or PM me). I had an amazingly fun time doing approaches over the weekend, and yes there was a makeout, and some dirty dancing with multiple cougars involved, but no sex. And you know what, I don't give a shit because I'm having FUN. The women and the guys around me were having fun too.

As I hone my skills, the hookups will come. And they will be more fun than the sex I've had before. I'll get into another relationship when I'm ready for it. Process over results, and always focused on giving, not taking.

Yeah, cougars are awesome! :awe: Almost guaranteed some sort of action from a cougar. :thumbsup:

KT

 

[zinfamous]

Man, I skipped bases like crazy. I still do that today. The natural progression is holding hands --> french kissing --> doggy style

There are no in between steps

fuck, I'm confused. I always thought it was: finger in ass -->kissing -->finger cuffs/triple penetration.

 

[Locut0s]

fuck, I'm confused. I always thought it was: finger in ass -->kissing -->finger cuffs/triple penetration.

Haha lol

 

[InflatableBuddha]

Yeah, cougars are awesome! :awe: Almost guaranteed some sort of action from a cougar. :thumbsup:

KT

It was a pretty glorious moment indeed. I'm telling you man, Yaletown Brewery after 11:30pm on a Friday/Saturday = Gold .

 

[GodlessAstronomer]

25 and not a virgin (lost at 18). I don't sleep around a lot and I definitely agree that being with someone truly special, having a woman who is also a true friend, beats the hell out of just busting a nut in and old wet hole. However I really think that if you're over 22 and haven't had sex then you need to just get out and have a whack at any old female, because it's really easy to lose perspective. Just look at a guy like TridenT - he has completely lost perspective on sex and thinks that banging a hotty is the one thing that will fulfill his life.

 

[zinfamous]

Yes, but I have very little experience really "making out" as you'd call it. The girls I date just aren't interested in that. I've always been attracted to kinda nerdy and frankly "sexually borin" girls, so they're never into that.

Sir, what you need....is a whore.

 

[KeithTalent]

It was a pretty glorious moment indeed. I'm telling you man, Yaletown Brewery after 11:30pm on a Friday/Saturday = Gold .

Oh damn, Yaletown cougars. Classy!

KT

 

[Riceninja]

Ok my bad

Another reason though why I'd just want to be friends first with a girl is well... how to put this... sex is sort of step 10. Kind of need to practice steps 1-9 first a bit. Not many girls are going to want to be with you if you've never had any experience, like me, even hanging out with girls in the first place. Like step 1. Or step 0.5.

on the other hand, you're old enough that a crash course straight to 10 is probably the best way to jump into it. once you get it over with, you'll be much more relaxed and less pressured by steps 1-9

KT and buddha are right. dont worry about girls not wanting it because youre not experienced. its vancouver. they're more likely to jump you just to claim your first.