What's with the libidos of ghetto guys?

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manowar821

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He's not being racist as far as I can tell. The entire retarded thug-culture is definitely not limited to blacks, I've seen just as many empty brained animals who are white.

The best thing you can do is help her move the hell out of there. As sad as the entire thug-inner-city lifestyle is, you really do not want a lone woman around that kind of shit.

I'm guessing it's not even the "hootin" and "hollerin" that upsets you. It's probably the sad fact that such disrespect leads to rape in inner-city areas. It's like a game for them.

Just get her the hell out of there. Then drop some napalm on the gang hangouts. :p
 
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Originally posted by: Throckmorton
Freedomsbeat, you are making an assumption about the libidos of black guys from the ghetto when that has nothing to do with anything.

The 1800s called. They want their biological racism back.

Screw you and your "not to sound like a racist" BS. Have you ever heard of the "myth of the black rapist"? The idea that blacks have a stronger libido was part of the belief system that allowed slavery

Don't forget, stereotypes come from somewhere.
I work in a factory that has a lot of blacks in it, and I see this attitude every day. So to me, it is an observable FACT. There isn't a day that goes by here where one of them can't control themselves. I've seen it happen first hand many times. A lady will walk by and one of the "dis-enfrachised youths" will say something or make lewd gestures. At least 1 a week is told to not come back as they are able to literally walk in and get a job pushing a broom or moving boxes.

The OP didn't say make an assumption, he made an OBSERVATION.
So don't forget, if you take offense that people think blacks fall under a certain stereo-type, it's not that persons fault. They shouldn't be the ones that have to be "educated" in political correctness. The person perpetuating the stereo-type are the ones that need an education, which all can get in the US.
 
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Originally posted by: manowar821
He's not being racist as far as I can tell. The entire retarded thug-culture is definitely not limited to blacks, I've seen just as many empty brained animals who are white.

The best thing you can do is help her move the hell out of there. As sad as the entire thug-inner-city lifestyle is, you really do not want a lone woman around that kind of shit.

I'm guessing it's not even the "hootin" and "hollerin" that upsets you. It's probably the sad fact that such disrespect leads to rape in inner-city areas. It's like a game for them.

Just get her the hell out of there. Then drop some napalm on the gang hangouts. :p

I mentioned my concern but can't do much else, it's not my place to push my views on her. She doesn't like it there, she has a sense of humor about it and mocks them, but she's still scared, I can tell. I offered to help her find another place and then she wondered about moving in together, but it's way too soon for that. So, yeah, in a few months she'll hopefully be out of there.. She's on a month to month lease so it'll work out.
 

KingGheedora

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Originally posted by: Mxylplyx
Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Throckmorton

I disagree with you, but you clearly know everything this is to know about race/class/culture issues.

I believe your mentality is why these problems continue. I would be so pleased if someone in the black community said "this behavior is unacceptable. Let's address the root cause of it." Instead, people who make obvious observations are called racist. Actually, Al Sharpton earned my respect when he spoke out against misogyny and homophobia in rap music - THAT RACIST!

He was talking about rap music, not black people. While he certainly was generalizing to some extent, making blanket statements about a type of music is much more socially acceptable than making generalizations about an group of people.

I think it's racist how they only put black people on the boxes for hair relaxers. It's like they are insinuating that only black people have nappy hair. The product is for nappy haired people, not black people.
Not all black people listen to hip hop. Not all people who listen to hip hop are black.
 
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Originally posted by: KingGheedora
Originally posted by: Mxylplyx
Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Throckmorton

I disagree with you, but you clearly know everything this is to know about race/class/culture issues.

I believe your mentality is why these problems continue. I would be so pleased if someone in the black community said "this behavior is unacceptable. Let's address the root cause of it." Instead, people who make obvious observations are called racist. Actually, Al Sharpton earned my respect when he spoke out against misogyny and homophobia in rap music - THAT RACIST!

He was talking about rap music, not black people. While he certainly was generalizing to some extent, making blanket statements about a type of music is much more socially acceptable than making generalizations about an group of people.

I think it's racist how they only put black people on the boxes for hair relaxers. It's like they are insinuating that only black people have nappy hair. The product is for nappy haired people, not black people.
Not all black people listen to hip hop. Not all people who listen to hip hop are black.

Sorry, didn't mean to make this a thread about hip hop, just mentioning Sharptons recent stance. I like hip hop - public enemy, de la soul, beastie boys, mos def, common. All interesting and intelligent artists. But mainstream hip hop does have an angry, anti-women side that's disturbing.
 

manowar821

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: manowar821
He's not being racist as far as I can tell. The entire retarded thug-culture is definitely not limited to blacks, I've seen just as many empty brained animals who are white.

The best thing you can do is help her move the hell out of there. As sad as the entire thug-inner-city lifestyle is, you really do not want a lone woman around that kind of shit.

I'm guessing it's not even the "hootin" and "hollerin" that upsets you. It's probably the sad fact that such disrespect leads to rape in inner-city areas. It's like a game for them.

Just get her the hell out of there. Then drop some napalm on the gang hangouts. :p

I mentioned my concern but can't do much else, it's not my place to push my views on her. She doesn't like it there, she has a sense of humor about it and mocks them, but she's still scared, I can tell. I offered to help her find another place and then she wondered about moving in together, but it's way too soon for that. So, yeah, in a few months she'll hopefully be out of there.. She's on a month to month lease so it'll work out.

That's good.
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
If this comes off as racist, so be it. I've never seen a gang of chinese guys disrespecting women the way black, inner-city guys do. My new gf lives in Bed-Stuy, a neighborhood in NYC that's currently in the process of gentrification but currently serves as one of the few affordable places left in the city. She just started her job and moved back to the city, so it's really all she could afford. The problem is that she's white and attractive, so the guys are like drooling pack animals. They hoot, holler, approach her.. FOLLOW her even. What is with this? Weren't these punks raised by their single moms, shouldnt' they know better? It's frustrating and means I always walk her home, even if it's only 9 pm (and I live about an hour away from her). My question is, where does this culture come from? Does no one tell their kids that following women, hooting, hollering, and disrespecting them is not the best way to attract them (if that's their goal)???

EDIT: Before you ATOT men who are so pure of soul claim that she dresses in a way that attracts these guys, she buys her clothes from Anne Taylor mostly (or vintage dresses). She doesn't reveal a thing and goes to church even.
A lot of good it does ranting to us, why not confront them next time they do it









:laugh:

 

classy

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: mooglemania85
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I've never seen a gang of chinese guys disrespecting women the way black, inner-city guys do.

That's because all asians are ninjas who use their ninja-skills to oggle unseen and make lewd comments that are undecipherable to Westerners.

Also, as is the case with all your threads,

TTIWWP!!!!!!

Fine, pics. No hooting or hollering, please.
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Man please. And by the way, you are darker than me. Trust me if your white woman is dating you, trust me she'll date a real brother as well. She ain't bad looking, but I don't think she'll garner all that much attention. By the way you couldn't find one of your own :p

 

MmmSkyscraper

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Originally posted by: Throckmorton
You post "look at me" threads on this forum just to get complements from a bunch of geeks, but when it's Mexicans out on the street hollering at you, you don't like it?

Nice comparison :thumbsdown: Posting pics for fun on a forum versus getting hollered at in the street are completely different scenarios. One makes her feel uncomfortable/unsafe and the other does not. Maybe you can work out which way round that goes.

Also, there would probably be more people posting pics if there weren't posters like you bitching about it or insulting everyone for no reason.
 

GRIFFIN1

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Their ancestors were slaves.... Not only should you be happy that your tax money goes to feed and house them, you should willingly let them have their way with your girlfriend. It's just the right thing to do. :)
 

purbeast0

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Originally posted by: Throckmorton
Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
As a woman, I can tell you that I don't like that kind of attention. Here, most of our "ghetto guys" are Mexican. I don't think it matters what you look like, when you walk in the neighborhood, you're going to get hollers. It makes it uncomfortable and kind of scary in certain situations. I used to get it a lot as a teenager and while at first I thought it was cool because "OMG teh guy(s) like me!!1!11!" Then it just got to where I hated having to walk anywhere because I knew I was going to get onslaught of whistles, hollers, comments, etc. Of course, this wasn't limited to the Hispanic race. If we're talking strictly "ghetto" (which we don't have a true ghetto here, at least IMO), it was predominately Hispanic. If we're talking all around the area...it was any and every race. I guess some boys/guys/men think that women like that and it's the way to get teh womenz. :confused:

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I like pic #2 of her. :)

You post "look at me" threads on this forum just to get complements from a bunch of geeks, but when it's Mexicans out on the street hollering at you, you don't like it?

interesting ...
 

TheCanuck

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Haha.. My wife was bitching about the same thing the other day! She works downtown and always has these black ghetto guys coming up to her, asking if she wants to go for a ride in their car, trying to chat her up etc. Then if she ignores them and keeps on walking they start getting all uppity. Silly ghettos...white chicks is fo' pimps!
 
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Originally posted by: classy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: mooglemania85
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I've never seen a gang of chinese guys disrespecting women the way black, inner-city guys do.

That's because all asians are ninjas who use their ninja-skills to oggle unseen and make lewd comments that are undecipherable to Westerners.

Also, as is the case with all your threads,

TTIWWP!!!!!!

Fine, pics. No hooting or hollering, please.
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Man please. And by the way, you are darker than me. Trust me if your white woman is dating you, trust me she'll date a real brother as well. She ain't bad looking, but I don't think she'll garner all that much attention. By the way you couldn't find one of your own :p

I'm a darkie, but that pic and her awful mac webcam make me look darker than I am. I'm culturally very.. "White." I watch seinfeld and listen to indie rock, and we're very similar in that way. I've only dated white girls but it's not a fetish, it's just the culture I grew up in (lived in suburban NYC, not the inner city).

As others said, she could be a white chick with 3rd degree burns all over her body, they'd still hit on her. And about not finding one of your own, the indian girls I've met don't get me and need rich guys. I'm not rich and am still a student, this girl I'm seeing said that she doesn't care one bit, as long as I'm ambitious and hard working. It's a different culture. I'm not saying all indian girls are superficial, my mom and sister are not, but this is just how things worked out.
 

jamautosound

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Originally posted by: daveymark

When they say "Hey girl, I want to get all up in that" they mean "Ma'am, I would enjoy the company of your person with myself if at all possible. Post haste. If not, then I shall certainly be on my way, to enjoy the good company and fellowship of my friends. Godspeed."


Summed it up perfectly.


It's just another form of phishing. Except with direct verbal contact. She's a new girl in town. Fellas will try to get at her and every other female that walks through their hood, in hopes that one of them will accept their ghetto mating call.

From the looks of her pics, she looks like she might be "thick" down below. If she has a round tushie, it will take quite a while longer until the homeboys get the hint that she doesn't want to be bothered. Even then, there will be a couple who just don't care, even if she has you as a chaperone.

<-- Loves 'em like: "L.A. Face With An Oakland Booty!"

:p
 

1sikbITCH

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It's no secret that in urban black America many young men have a complete and utter disrespect for ALL bitches and hoes... um, I mean women. It's not just white women.

However, try running a game on most black women out on the street and you're likely to be picking your teeth out of your lips.

White woman are just easier targets.
 

AVAFREAK182

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Shit. I know. Its always a scronny black guy (with no job), mooching off of fat white chicks with low self esteem (and make all the money at a dead end job).
 

1prophet

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
If this comes off as racist, so be it. I've never seen a gang of chinese guys disrespecting women the way black, inner-city guys do. My new gf lives in Bed-Stuy, a neighborhood in NYC that's currently in the process of gentrification but currently serves as one of the few affordable places left in the city. She just started her job and moved back to the city, so it's really all she could afford. The problem is that she's white and attractive, so the guys are like drooling pack animals. They hoot, holler, approach her.. FOLLOW her even. What is with this? Weren't these punks raised by their single moms, shouldnt' they know better? It's frustrating and means I always walk her home, even if it's only 9 pm (and I live about an hour away from her). My question is, where does this culture come from? Does no one tell their kids that following women, hooting, hollering, and disrespecting them is not the best way to attract them (if that's their goal)???

EDIT: Before you ATOT men who are so pure of soul claim that she dresses in a way that attracts these guys, she buys her clothes from Anne Taylor mostly (or vintage dresses). She doesn't reveal a thing and goes to church even.



Unless they have x-ray glasses this should do the trick. Text :D :p

 

KAMAZON

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www.alirazeghi.com
God knows them blacks, hispanics, and gays can't stop having that unprotected sex. /sarcasm


Come on tho, seriously, you can't honestly say at least half of us aren't just as horny. Sure, in our culture we don't hoot and holler at women (usually) like they do on the streets, but is it THAT big of a deal?? Seriously, sometimes we need to take a step back and chillax about the little things.
 

Xstatic1

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Originally posted by: mooglemania85
Originally posted by: Xstatic1
less to do with libidos than it is a mating call. see daveymark's first two paragraphs.

where does this culture come from, u ask? that's the approach they've learned to attract the opposite sex...and btw, they don't consider it disrespectful since after all they're vying for the girl's attention.

I thought the approach was to spray colt-45s and malta goyas all over an unsuspecting woman. No woman can resist the thrill of getting hosed down by a gangsta crew.

Been watching MTV again, eh? :p
 

jonmcc33

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Originally posted by: Throckmorton
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Originally posted by: Throckmorton
Freedomsbeat, you are making an assumption about the libidos of black guys from the ghetto when that has nothing to do with anything.

The 1800s called. They want their biological racism back.

Screw you and your "not to sound like a racist" BS. Have you ever heard of the "myth of the black rapist"? The idea that blacks have a stronger libido was part of the belief system that allowed slavery

Take a white girl into a dance club in an upscale "white" neighborhood and then take her to a club in a very inner city part of town. Dollars to donuts she gets swarmed faster in the 2nd one.

It's not because black people have stronger libidos.

I agree. It's because they don't respect a bitch.
 

Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: daveymark
It's an instinctual, primal thing to make noises (mating call etc).

When they say "Hey girl, I want to get all up in that" they mean "Ma'am, I would enjoy the company of your person with myself if at all possible. Post haste. If not, then I shall certainly be on my way, to enjoy the good company and fellowship of my friends. Godspeed."

some women have ADD and can't comprehend that, and it's never a good idea to take ritalin after a hard days work, as that will keep you up all night. So here we have a situation where a stressed out ADD woman, tired on her way home from work, cannot decipher a paragraph full of words for something so simple as an introduction. Men must encompass all of those words and squeeze them into a quick ten word sentence that ewill still hold the same emphasis. Sure some important parts have to be cut out (I would love to use th word godspeed, trust me.) in order to meet the guidelines.

When you look at it this way, it is the Ghetto Male who is being caring by taking the initiative to come up with something that won't take so much time to enunciate.

If anything, a female should be appreciative of the time the male took to groom his verbal cues into a short, quick, neutered two part sentence.

CONFIRMED BY THE ONION!!! :laugh:
 

Whisper

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I see the exact same behavior by swarms of late-teens/early-20's Caucasian males outside night clubs all the time. Same goes for Asians and Hispanics. It's not a "ghetto black" thing, it's a crude male thing.