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shud

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: shud
I believe this calls for a Danza Slap.

?¿que es?

Whip your penis out, slap her in the face with it, and then shout "Who's the boss?!?"

Works best if someone is already leaning over in your crotch area.
 

radioouman

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If you have a personality like mine, you like the challenge. In fact, the thrill of getting a new girl is the exciting part of the relationship. It makes it that much more of a thrill and exciting if she already has a bf or you are battling it out with another guy for her attention. This is one of those times when I would stick with her as much as I could and eventually she'll see me as something more.

I've wasted, yes wasted, 1.5 years of my life going after a girl who falls in and out of love with me. Actually, she admits that I am her dream, but she doesn't want to leave her current relationship.
 

Patt

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Waaaaay too much work involved here. Unless there is something truly special you see worth working through years of emotional trauma for ... walk away, or settle into the friend zone.
 

eakers

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Yeah, she wants a guy that calls her a whore and treats her like dirt. Since you weren't willing to do that, it never had a chance of working out.

winnar, [/thread]

she's back with the ex bf. My last email i ever wrote to her basically told her to just go back to him, she had blown any chance with me, and that her p.o.s. ex woudl be the best guy she ever had, and more than she even deserved so just get back with him. She wanted to sitll be able to go back and fvck him while meeting new, fun guys...and have them be ok with dating her and investing time in her while she still fvcked him.

so she really was a slut?!
 

Atomicus

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She's damaged goods. Playing the role of white-knight in shining armor is too risque in this time and age.
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: Atomicus
She's damaged goods. Playing the role of white-knight in shining armor is too risque in this time and age.

The white knight's princess sucked the black knight's cock while he was out slaying dragons.
 

Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Yeah, she wants a guy that calls her a whore and treats her like dirt. Since you weren't willing to do that, it never had a chance of working out.

winnar, [/thread]

she's back with the ex bf. My last email i ever wrote to her basically told her to just go back to him, she had blown any chance with me, and that her p.o.s. ex woudl be the best guy she ever had, and more than she even deserved so just get back with him. She wanted to sitll be able to go back and fvck him while meeting new, fun guys...and have them be ok with dating her and investing time in her while she still fvcked him.

so she really was a slut?!

she ended up kissing or making out with 2 of my other friends, albiet drunk...hooked up with at least 3 others...(for the record I knew she was doing this, she wasn't playing me).

 

Atomicus

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: Atomicus
She's damaged goods. Playing the role of white-knight in shining armor is too risque in this time and age.

The white knight's princess sucked the black knight's cock while he was out slaying dragons.

:eek:
 

NakaNaka

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Yeah, she wants a guy that calls her a whore and treats her like dirt. Since you weren't willing to do that, it never had a chance of working out.

winnar, [/thread]

she's back with the ex bf. My last email i ever wrote to her basically told her to just go back to him, she had blown any chance with me, and that her p.o.s. ex woudl be the best guy she ever had, and more than she even deserved so just get back with him. She wanted to sitll be able to go back and fvck him while meeting new, fun guys...and have them be ok with dating her and investing time in her while she still fvcked him.

Don't sweat it man. You don't want to deal w. her.
 

stnicralisk

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Yeah, she wants a guy that calls her a whore and treats her like dirt. Since you weren't willing to do that, it never had a chance of working out.

winnar, [/thread]

she's back with the ex bf. My last email i ever wrote to her basically told her to just go back to him, she had blown any chance with me, and that her p.o.s. ex woudl be the best guy she ever had, and more than she even deserved so just get back with him. She wanted to sitll be able to go back and fvck him while meeting new, fun guys...and have them be ok with dating her and investing time in her while she still fvcked him.

so she really was a slut?!

she ended up kissing or making out with 2 of my other friends, albiet drunk...hooked up with at least 3 others...(for the record I knew she was doing this, she wasn't playing me).


You never take sloppy seconds off of a friend. Never. There are too many risks involved in doing so.
 

Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: conjur
And just how old are we talking here?


Oh and, btw, :camera:s?

pics are all on the comp i'm trying to fix...i have ones of her giving me a lapdance. she's about an 8/8.25
 

arcenite

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Now my question for ATOT...what would you have done at this point, all-knowing ATOT?
Post an inane rambling thread about it.:roll:

That's what you should have done :p
 

J Heartless Slick

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
So this is back in May. Me and one of my best friends at the time meet a couple girls playing pool one night. I really hit it off with one of them, and after a couple times hanging out in a group, I invite her over for dinner one night. We end up making out for a while, and suddenly she bursts into tears. I ask her if i'm that bad of a kisser....she laughs and tells me it's that she just broke up with her bf a little over a week ago. She starts talking about how she's a slut, and a whore, and her boyfriend had always told her as such. Now, up to this point I've clicked well with this girl, so I assure her she's not a slut, it's not like we're going to fvck or anything, and we're just two people who get along well, etc. We kiss a few more times, but it is getting late so she has to leave soon. That night she IM's me, we talk for a while, she's still upset, talking about how I'll find a good girl someday, etc. I tell her again, that I'm not asking her out or anything, she just got out of a relationship and we should just keep getting to know each other better and going with the flow, and that seems to comfort her a bit. Later in the afternoon the day after I give her a call to see how she's doing and if she's feeling better...I get her voicemail....the message is her sobbing and saying 'I don't want to talk to anyone right now just leave a message'....I left a very short one saying not to feel bad and that we didn't do anything wrong, and she seems like a sweet girl and to just relax. Now my question for ATOT...what would you have done at this point, all-knowing ATOT?

cliffs:
1. meet girl and hit it off, hang out later and make out
2. girl starts sobbing about how she's a slut, etc.
3. I try to comfort her, it sorta works..
4. Next day the message on her voicemail is her sobbing and saying she doesn't want to talk to anyone
5. what would you have done at this point?

I would have almost hurt myself running away from this situation. I have found it best to believe a woman when she says that she is not interested.
 

ColdFusion718

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If you want to be friends with her, then be friends. If you're looking for anything non-platonic, I would stay away. I fell victim to the friends ladder situation before, so be weary.

That night she IM's me, we talk for a while, she's still upset, talking about how I'll find a good girl someday, etc

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That night she IM's me, we talk for a while, she's still upset, talking about how I'll find a good girl someday, etc

Are clear indications to stay away. Regardless, good luck with her and post pics please :)