- Sep 10, 2003
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I'm a reference librarian at a midsize university. My office is off the research/reference area, and I staff the reference desk for 8-10 hours a week. Yesterday, another librarian gave me a candybar with a note from a girl that thanked me for helping her at one of our computers for the public. It also had her number on it. I don't remember the girl and the librarian just said that she was cute. The librarian is a 60 year old woman and I didn't want to ask her-- "is she hot?"-- for obvious reasons.
I called her last night and made the mistake of asking her to coffee way too early. After we agreed to coffee on Saturday, she started to go on and on, and we ended up talking for about 15 minutes. It turns out that she's a hardcore christian who goes to evangelical conferences for fun, and all of her friends come from this end of the christian scale. She is 31 and doesn't have a 4 year degree yet, and said something about suing an ex-employer (didn't really understand what she was saying).
She knows someone at the library (that's how she found out my name), but I don't know who. I'm thinking it's just a lower level staff member, though.
I didn't feel like rescinding my offer and going through that awkwardness, though.
She knows where I work, she sounded somewhat unstable, and the fact that she knows someone at the library give me some pause. I don't know if I should just not contact her again, txt her "I don't think we have much in common," or just txt her some excuse and blow her off. I don't want to do anything to piss off a possible stalker.
I called her last night and made the mistake of asking her to coffee way too early. After we agreed to coffee on Saturday, she started to go on and on, and we ended up talking for about 15 minutes. It turns out that she's a hardcore christian who goes to evangelical conferences for fun, and all of her friends come from this end of the christian scale. She is 31 and doesn't have a 4 year degree yet, and said something about suing an ex-employer (didn't really understand what she was saying).
She knows someone at the library (that's how she found out my name), but I don't know who. I'm thinking it's just a lower level staff member, though.
I didn't feel like rescinding my offer and going through that awkwardness, though.
She knows where I work, she sounded somewhat unstable, and the fact that she knows someone at the library give me some pause. I don't know if I should just not contact her again, txt her "I don't think we have much in common," or just txt her some excuse and blow her off. I don't want to do anything to piss off a possible stalker.
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