OK, so I meet this girl, talk for a couple hours a day, we go to dinner 2 weeks ago, have a lovely time. Last week I asked her to go to dinner again on Friday, she says yes, unless she has to work, as her schedule isn't set yet at her new job. Friday comes, I call, and she doesn't pick up the phone or call-back. I see her online late that night, she says she was really busy all day, forgot her cellphone at home...but to call her the next afternoon and she'd pick up. I figure I'd give it a shot, called her, and she didn't pick up or call back. I leave a semi-pissed voicemail. I hear back from her the next day, she leaves me a message saying that she's not completely over this guy from a month or two ago, and she's still dealing with that. Oddly, she still talks to me in the few days since she left that message..but I'm very cautious cause I don't want to wander into the friends zone too deep or at all if possible
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NOW I do like this girl, she holds a good conversation, can party very hard on the weekends, and still handle her priorities and goals, and is responsible with her job. She actually knows what she's talking about with baseball which is a plus (hearing a girl talk about utility infielders in the proper sense is amazing, as is hearing her dissect why the Bronson Arroyo - Wiley Mo Pena trade was horrid).
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My question then; Do I tell her that I really do like her now, and that when she's over this guy I'll be around, or do I completely dissapear and then pop back up in a month or so if I'm still single? I just wanted to have a fun time with her and see what developed, if anything...now I'm not sure what to do..
UPDATE: So i just decided to tell her that I enjoyed her company, but since she was still not over this other guy, to give me a call or an IM someday when she was. I said I couldnt' promise that I'd be interested in hanging out again, but that I could promise I'd listen, and that I wouldnt' make a big deal out of her comin back round.
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NOW I do like this girl, she holds a good conversation, can party very hard on the weekends, and still handle her priorities and goals, and is responsible with her job. She actually knows what she's talking about with baseball which is a plus (hearing a girl talk about utility infielders in the proper sense is amazing, as is hearing her dissect why the Bronson Arroyo - Wiley Mo Pena trade was horrid).
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My question then; Do I tell her that I really do like her now, and that when she's over this guy I'll be around, or do I completely dissapear and then pop back up in a month or so if I'm still single? I just wanted to have a fun time with her and see what developed, if anything...now I'm not sure what to do..
UPDATE: So i just decided to tell her that I enjoyed her company, but since she was still not over this other guy, to give me a call or an IM someday when she was. I said I couldnt' promise that I'd be interested in hanging out again, but that I could promise I'd listen, and that I wouldnt' make a big deal out of her comin back round.
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