What should I do with this friend?

[hypn0tik]

Originally posted by: Jikininki
You should set him up with my friend. They'd be perfect for each other. She does the same thing to me because she doesn't like seeing me happier than her. Dont understand why...she's gorgeous and she has EVERYTHING she could ever want or need. Don't get why she needs to get so jealous over her supposed "best friend" being happy.

Pics? Of you and your friend. Preferrably showing a lot of skin and kissing.

 

[Jikininki]

Originally posted by: BroeBo

Originally posted by: Jikininki
You should set him up with my friend. They'd be perfect for each other. She does the same thing to me because she doesn't like seeing me happier than her. Dont understand why...she's gorgeous and she has EVERYTHING she could ever want or need. Don't get why she needs to get so jealous over her supposed "best friend" being happy.

Because she secretly wants you. Chicks will do that sort of thing.

i don't think my friend is a lesbian....

but thanks for thinking i'm a dude. lol

 

[Heisenberg]

I'd at least stop hanging out with him when there are women around. If it were me, I'd stop hanging out altogether since his actions show that he has no respect for you.

 

[Qwest]

sounds like he could be a new...

Gamekiller

 

[Tiamat]

He is a cock-blocker. Hang out with him, but don't invite him when your interests in girls are involved.

 

[40Hands]

Originally posted by: Jikininki

Originally posted by: BroeBo

Originally posted by: Jikininki
You should set him up with my friend. They'd be perfect for each other. She does the same thing to me because she doesn't like seeing me happier than her. Dont understand why...she's gorgeous and she has EVERYTHING she could ever want or need. Don't get why she needs to get so jealous over her supposed "best friend" being happy.

Because she secretly wants you. Chicks will do that sort of thing.

i don't think my friend is a lesbian....

but thanks for thinking i'm a dude. lol

Heh... Sorry, with all the males here I end up thinking everyone is a guy.

OK so your situation is probably jealously as well. Are you better looking then her? Do guys flirt more with you then her? She probably thinks "if she cannot be happy then her friends should not".

Not a very good altitude to have if she wants to keep her friends.

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: Jikininki
You should set him up with my friend. They'd be perfect for each other. She does the same thing to me because she doesn't like seeing me happier than her. Dont understand why...she's gorgeous and she has EVERYTHING she could ever want or need. Don't get why she needs to get so jealous over her supposed "best friend" being happy.

welcome to reality, take a big bite 🙁


Compared to some, she doesn't sound half bad though. You're lucky she isn't of the more malicious type (yet 🙁 )... the kind that will stab you in the back at your wedding, then hug you while you're crying your eyes out... after convincing herself she did the right thing.

Cyclic as well, it'll keep happening. 'Lick her outside in the school yard, that'll learn her good

 

[PingSpike]

Either cockpunch him and throw him down a flight of stairs or bone his girlfriend.

Seriously, why are you hanging out with this douche? Just shat in his bed and don't call him anymore.

 

[40Hands]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
Either cockpunch him and throw him down a flight of stairs or bone his girlfriend.

Seriously, why are you hanging out with this douche? Just shat on his coat and don't call him anymore.

Fixed. At least make it involve Dane Cook.

Seriously though, drop this guy like a bad habit. Do it slowly and eventually just stop calling him. Fade out FTW.

 

[crownjules]

Punch him in the face. Seriously, a "friend" wouldn't act like this. He dragged a drunk girl into his car a minute after meeting her? That's just sketchy period regardless of the fact that you told him not to hit on her.

 

[jdub1107]

He's not much of a friend. I'd never hang out with a guy like that.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: skrilla
Have you ever confronted him about it? He may not know he is doing it.

Otherwise just stop hanging out with the guy all together.

I've confronted him...he's like 'oh I'm sorry, I didn't realize I was doing that...blah blah blah'...

Originally posted by: sm8000
That's sad, you need a wingman to counter your friend. Get him laid, his gf ain't cutting it.

The thing is, girls LOVE him. he gets it from other girls too, not just his gf....*le sigh*

 

[Accipiter22]

to answer previous question, I'm 24, he's 22.


yeah, the advice here seems to be to either

A) Hang out with him when girls are NOT involved
B) Punch him / Confront Him
C) Stop hanging out with him

the problem with A) is that you never know WHEN you'll meet a great girl....with B), I've tried talking to him previously and he just doesn't seem to change/get it. I guess that leaves...C)....

 

[astrocase]

Everyone has had a friend like that.

Drop him.

 

[astrocase]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
to answer previous question, I'm 24, he's 22.


yeah, the advice here seems to be to either

A) Hang out with him when girls are NOT involved
B) Punch him / Confront Him
C) Stop hanging out with him

the problem with A) is that you never know WHEN you'll meet a great girl....with B), I've tried talking to him previously and he just doesn't seem to change/get it. I guess that leaves...C)....

I missed this last post with your ages. That's WAY TOO OLD to be doing this crap. Most people outgrow this much younger. To still tolerate it is amazing?! How do you do it? These are the types of guys that you take camping way out in the woods and then let them walk home.

New wingman. 'Nuff said. Ace the douche.

 

[ballmode]

It's a pack of wolves when it comes to girls and friends.

Sounds like a friend I had except not as agressive. I don't talk to the guy anymore

 

[DainBramaged]

Originally posted by: SampSon
He's an insufferable cockblocker.

What you have to do is make friends with a tranny and set this kid up.

As usual, SampSon's advice is the Right Way?.

 

[zephyrprime]

Why are you friends with this guy? He's a total jackass. He obviously thinks little of you and is just using you. Just stop hanging out with him and inviting him to anything. Or confront him about it if you're the tough type.

 

[gigapet]

dude cockblockin is against the rules when I go out with my boys. If you are caught cockblocking intentionally you are excommunicated from the group(possible left stranded at the venue without a ride) until you make it up to everyone and have learned your lesson. Tell him to stop being such an inconsiderate prick if he wants to continue to be your buddy in this sense. if he can't accept these terms then i wouldnt call him a friend and just stop taking his calls.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: gigapet
dude cockblockin is against the rules when I go out with my boys. If you are caught cockblocking intentionally you are excommunicated from the group(possible left stranded at the venue without a ride) until you make it up to everyone and have learned your lesson. Tell him to stop being such an inconsiderate prick if he wants to continue to be your buddy in this sense. if he can't accept these terms then i wouldnt call him a friend and just stop taking his calls.

yah, it's really too bad...I do enjoy hanging out with him going out and carousing...but I keep thinking to myself ' what if I meet someone really great and this guy cock blocks me again?'.....cause he claims all the time he's not doing it on purpose, and apologizes...says 'oh, sorry I didn't realize going in the convertible with Meg would offend you' and 'oh, they never told me to give you Kate's number...I just found out now'....like one or two would be a coincidence but this happens every time. I guess it's clear what I have to do

 

[EngenZerO]

wow... he sounds like a d-bag when women are involved... he deserves a wrekcing.

 

[CarlKillerMiller]

I'd say just cut him off. He obviously doesn't care for your wellbeing, on top of being a selfish prick.

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: SampSon
He's an insufferable cockblocker.

What you have to do is make friends with a tranny and set this kid up.

 

[astrocase]

Start dating his mom.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: RightIsWrong
You are still his friend......why?

when girls aren't involved, he's usually great, we go on trips, hang out, drink, whatever. He has a gf right now too, which makes his behavior even more baffling.

But I am thinking of just cutting him off. It's too bad, because when it comes to going out and having adventures and wot not, he really is my partner in crime

OP, you need to beat the h3ck out of this guy. He is an ass and deserves a beatdown. You should not be his friend. He is selfish and is poison.

If the person acts differently in front of different people to that extent, that means he is putting on an act. He is a total fake, and get rid of him from your life.