OK, I have thick hair, and I don't want it to look shiny or stiff like it does with gel. I want it to stay how I put it, but without the product really being visible. Would I use forming creme, styling creme, or something else? I've tried pomade and that makes my hair look too stiff, and gel is just awful looking. I want something that holds my hair in place decently, and is virtually invisible.
