what is the worst thing....

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

I wish all of my reasons for being alone ATM were so noble.

Just wait a few days.....you never know

I'm questioning that decision ATM.

LOL....I guess that really makes me a nerd huh?
oh well.....

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

I wish all of my reasons for being alone ATM were so noble.

Just wait a few days.....you never know

I'm questioning that decision ATM.

come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

I wish all of my reasons for being alone ATM were so noble.

Just wait a few days.....you never know

I'm questioning that decision ATM.

LOL....I guess that really makes me a nerd huh?
oh well.....

Nah, computer enthusiasts are geeks.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

I wish all of my reasons for being alone ATM were so noble.

Just wait a few days.....you never know

I'm questioning that decision ATM.

LOL....I guess that really makes me a nerd huh?
oh well.....

let me ask you this....

do you lack in social skills?

do you smell like you haven't taken a bath in days?

damn...I need a list

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

that's better then a lady who only knows about windows and refuses to learn anything more!

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

that's better then a lady who only knows about windows and refuses to learn anything more!

That's just another abusive relationship.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

that's better then a lady who only knows about windows and refuses to learn anything more!

That's just another abusive relationship.

how is that abusive?

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
true NoC

wish there were more resources for women out there in these kinds
of situations....

but thanks for the :beer:
and the thoughts....

the best advice I can possibly give you is to learn how to defend yourself....


Take a course in martial arts or self defence.

If some guy in the future tries that sh!t on you again, he'll be lying down on the floor before he accomplishes anything

While that's not a bad idea, it is attacking the symptoms instead of the illness. The biggest problem comes from people (men and women, a lot of people seem to forget that) not believing they deserve better, or are being mistreated, or thinking they're too "in love" to get what they truly deserve. Until they accept that abusive behavior is not right, the self defense won't help.

And at that point, emotional and financial support are just as important. There are plenty of resources to help WOMEN with this, although there can never be enough resources.

and may I add to this that it is the abusers that need help too.
My ex was mandated to a violence control program after this by the Courts.
Don't know if it helped, but I think its an essential mandate.

Your input on the subject is definitely welcomed.

I think that's a great start, but I'd love to see stricter penalties for these issues. It's also tough to get protection from the man before he does anything violent, and that's a damn shame.

absolutely...there should be stricter penalties, and some states are actually imposing them
due to the increase in abuse cases.

I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

errr.....who said anything about being nerds?

She meant geeks, she probably doesn't know the difference.

edited and duly noted: GEEKS not nerds

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
true NoC

wish there were more resources for women out there in these kinds
of situations....

but thanks for the :beer:
and the thoughts....

the best advice I can possibly give you is to learn how to defend yourself....


Take a course in martial arts or self defence.

If some guy in the future tries that sh!t on you again, he'll be lying down on the floor before he accomplishes anything

While that's not a bad idea, it is attacking the symptoms instead of the illness. The biggest problem comes from people (men and women, a lot of people seem to forget that) not believing they deserve better, or are being mistreated, or thinking they're too "in love" to get what they truly deserve. Until they accept that abusive behavior is not right, the self defense won't help.

And at that point, emotional and financial support are just as important. There are plenty of resources to help WOMEN with this, although there can never be enough resources.

and may I add to this that it is the abusers that need help too.
My ex was mandated to a violence control program after this by the Courts.
Don't know if it helped, but I think its an essential mandate.

Your input on the subject is definitely welcomed.

I think that's a great start, but I'd love to see stricter penalties for these issues. It's also tough to get protection from the man before he does anything violent, and that's a damn shame.

absolutely...there should be stricter penalties, and some states are actually imposing them
due to the increase in abuse cases.

I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

errr.....who said anything about being nerds?

She meant geeks, she probably doesn't know the difference.

edited and duly noted: GEEKS not nerds

thank you kindly milady

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
true NoC

wish there were more resources for women out there in these kinds
of situations....

but thanks for the :beer:
and the thoughts....

the best advice I can possibly give you is to learn how to defend yourself....


Take a course in martial arts or self defence.

If some guy in the future tries that sh!t on you again, he'll be lying down on the floor before he accomplishes anything

While that's not a bad idea, it is attacking the symptoms instead of the illness. The biggest problem comes from people (men and women, a lot of people seem to forget that) not believing they deserve better, or are being mistreated, or thinking they're too "in love" to get what they truly deserve. Until they accept that abusive behavior is not right, the self defense won't help.

And at that point, emotional and financial support are just as important. There are plenty of resources to help WOMEN with this, although there can never be enough resources.

and may I add to this that it is the abusers that need help too.
My ex was mandated to a violence control program after this by the Courts.
Don't know if it helped, but I think its an essential mandate.

Your input on the subject is definitely welcomed.

I think that's a great start, but I'd love to see stricter penalties for these issues. It's also tough to get protection from the man before he does anything violent, and that's a damn shame.

absolutely...there should be stricter penalties, and some states are actually imposing them
due to the increase in abuse cases.

I am very careful now about the choices I make and if there is any question, I remain alone
which is where I'm at
in this point in my life. Better safe than sorry.....
I'd rather be a nerd safe at home talking to you guys here at AT and fiddling around
with my techie stuff than subjecting myself to a situation like before.
Don't get me wrong....when the time comes I'll know and I won't let it happen again!

errr.....who said anything about being nerds?

She meant geeks, she probably doesn't know the difference.

edited and duly noted: GEEKS not nerds

thank you kindly milady

Fanatical about anything technical
sits in front of PC for hours (days ?)
Loves taking computers apart and fixing them
loves upgrading
excited when a new part/component is ordered
loves to be on AT
and a woman too = geek!

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

that's better then a lady who only knows about windows and refuses to learn anything more!

That's just another abusive relationship.

how is that abusive?

I don't think Windows treats anyone well.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

I must say, that is the first rose I ever get!

I'm touched!

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

Word. My roommate knows better than to even mention my sister.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Jero
come on dude, don't fail on me now!!!

Remember how great she is!

It's complicated.

Although, she does know what an OC48 is. *drool*

She's is probably a huge unix nut.

Now go off and marry her!

She's been out of the tech biz for a while, and while she may know what Unix is, she isn't a nut.

that's better then a lady who only knows about windows and refuses to learn anything more!

That's just another abusive relationship.

how is that abusive?

I don't think Windows treats anyone well.

Point well taken. but that's purely out of ignorance. Windows users just don't know any better

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

hey MFH

now....

what I want to know is this:
OP
what IS the worst thing for you guys
since we got a bit off track here....
I know that happens a lot at AT
but .....Jero had an excellent question
that deserves some excellent answers

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

hey MFH

now....

what I want to know is this:
OP
what IS the worst thing for you guys
since we got a bit off track here....
I know that happens a lot at AT
but .....Jero had an excellent question
that deserves some excellent answers

I can't believe that my own thread got hijacked and I was a willing participant....what is the world coming to?

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

Word. My roommate knows better than to even mention my sister.

even at my age and being the oldest...
my brother (esp younger one) is SUPER
protective still!

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

hey MFH

now....

what I want to know is this:
OP
what IS the worst thing for you guys
since we got a bit off track here....
I know that happens a lot at AT
but .....Jero had an excellent question
that deserves some excellent answers

/me waves

My ex cheated on me, then lied about it. :thumbsdown: Her + Curb.

- M4H

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

hey MFH

now....

what I want to know is this:
OP
what IS the worst thing for you guys
since we got a bit off track here....
I know that happens a lot at AT
but .....Jero had an excellent question
that deserves some excellent answers

I can't believe that my own thread got hijacked and I was a willing participant....what is the world coming to?

LOL

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

Word. My roommate knows better than to even mention my sister.

even at my age and being the oldest...
my brother (esp younger one) is SUPER
protective still!

Age isn't important.

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: lavagirl669

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kicking ass, what brothers do best.

<--- is very protective of his younger siblings

- M4H

Word. My roommate knows better than to even mention my sister.

even at my age and being the oldest...
my brother (esp younger one) is SUPER
protective still!

Age isn't important.

I realize that....my Bro acts like I'm still 12....but I love em to death
I love that about guys...how protective they are esp of Sisters