im hopeless. ive fallen in love with my therapist whos prolly twice my age and i could not offer her anything. im just a piece of meat these days who happens to ponder his own existance endlessly. i really do loathe myself.
what has become of me?
- Thread starter tnilC
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Try to focus on the little things that make you happy. Regardless of age differences, I'm sure you have something to offer. Therapist-patient relationship though? That doesn't sound too realistic unfortunately 
pics?
just kidding.
anyway, does she suspect you have feelings for her or are you hiding them out of fear she'll end the sessions?
why are you falling for her?
is she helping you deal with whatever angst drove u to therapy originally?
just kidding.
anyway, does she suspect you have feelings for her or are you hiding them out of fear she'll end the sessions?
why are you falling for her?
is she helping you deal with whatever angst drove u to therapy originally?
SMOGZINN
Lifer
- Jun 17, 2005
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Is this a physical or psychological therapist?
Dating either would be unethical, but a physical therapist can still do her job while having a relationship with the patient. A psychological therapist can not do her job if you are hiding feelings for her. If it is your psychiatrist/psychologist that we are talking about, you need to tell her how you feel in your next session, otherwise you will actually be harming your efforts.
Dating either would be unethical, but a physical therapist can still do her job while having a relationship with the patient. A psychological therapist can not do her job if you are hiding feelings for her. If it is your psychiatrist/psychologist that we are talking about, you need to tell her how you feel in your next session, otherwise you will actually be harming your efforts.
:thumbsup:
You're already there for therapy, right? What's the worst that could happen? Drawback is she already knows how fvcked up you are. . .hmmmmm. . .
shes a psychological therapist. i have been diagnosed bi-polar and have been seeing her for about 6 months. i know its common and cliche but its happened and i feel horrible because it will never ever be a reality. its sad to have finally felt this way about a women and knowing its just an inevitable outcome of being close to somone mentally and emotionally.
sixone
Lifer
- May 3, 2004
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No, it's an inevitable outcome of opening yourself up to a therapist. You aren't close with her mentally or emotionally, it just feels that way because she's doing her job. As your therapy goes on, you'll realize that it was just the natural progression of your therapy.
When you let yourself become close mentally and emotionally to a woman who is capable of being your equal in the relationship, the experience will be so much better than what you're feeling now. I know it's hard for you to believe that now, but it will.
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