I assume, bamacre, since you have some insight into the nature of mirrors, that you are aware that not only do we project on others our own fears, that also what we critique in others is what we critique in ourselves, or to put it more directly, that the reason you can see that Democrats fear their own failures is because you fear your own, or more exactly that your ideological purity, your need to be unsullied by the taint of Democrat or Republican, your need to escape fear, has driven you into the idealism of the third party that will have no real governance in the world and thus not the slightest chance of failure, and that there in your ivory tower of separateness you can throw bombs at us mere mortals who chose to work with the only evils at hand, and that in this fictional place in your head there exists the untested and untestable illusion that if by some miracle unseen, if your party came to power, it would be any different than what we already see. For the one thing you can't escape is that, as you said, "You are them, and they are you."