What do you say to your wife when...

JoLLyRoGer

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Her reasoning is that at 30 years old and after nursing 2 kids, she feels 'deflated'. I disagree. I think things are just fine "topside" and I've told her so. I also know that if you were to look at her on the street you'd never have guessed she's ever had a kid. My wife works out alot and has a nice athletic build but for some reason she seems bent on getting implants. For about a year she used to talk about it almost daily but had dropped the topic in the last a couple of months so I though maybe she has moved on and then just yesterday out of nowhere she says she's going in for a consult.

I don't know exactly how to feel about this. I've over and over and over told her that I think she's just right the way she is and I wouldn't change a thing. She has made it blateltly clear that she's doing this primarily for herself and although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, I just don't want to see her make a decicion she may come to regret later.

I guess I've watched too many horror stories on Discovery Health and I'm concerned about the risks more than anything. I'd just really hate to see something go wrong.

Discuss...

Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

Here's another one that's a little better (she's on the left)
Pic 2

Update : I've decided to support her decision.
1st consult is scheduled for Sept 22nd.
 

SagaLore

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She'll regret it in 30 more years.

I would say she is beautiful as she is. If she wants to perk them up, she should do some bench presses.

My wife on the other hands want to reduce her breast size.
 

iamwiz82

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I was originally against the idea as well, but it's what she wanted and I relented. My advice is the support her in her decision, but explain your issues/fears. I also suggest going to the consultation and asking any questions you have.
 

ajf3

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Ok... obligatory... pics?

Can't really answer this one without them :)
 

theNEOone

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fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|
 

jhayx7

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How big is she now and how big does she want to be? Obvious fake boobs are gross but if she just wanted to get them a cup bigger that might be ok unless she is a D already.

Jeezy Creezy at all of the posts within 1min...
 

Modular

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Who's $$ pays for it? If it's yours tell her no and put it in a college fund for the kids.

 

JoLLyRoGer

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You guys will have to give me a second for pics.. ok? I've got to go digging around my HDD.
 

Darthvoy

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personally i prefer smaller natural breast. If my g/f wanted to do that I would let her know how I felt about it, but I wouldn't discourage her from doing it.
 

Nerva

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use reverse psychology, and tell her to get them to DDs. scare her with your enthusiam. caution: may backfire.