I'll go in chronological order and do what I got then what I gave:
I got from the GF:
WD 1 TB drive (Caviar black model)
6 bottles of some nice wine
Cologne that she likes the smell of (I do as well)
Since I got an internship at work she got me some nice clothes to wear for it
Leather duffel bag (although this came with the cologne, but was a seperate gift)
She got some lingerie/outfits that I have said I wanted to see her wear (this was also our 6 mo gift partially, since the 26th is our 6th mo)
-She made a calendar of herself in said outfits (and others she already had) for 2009

A coin bank and $25 check (she always takes coins from my cup-o-coins, and I tell her to do it if she needs it but she still feels like shes "taking money from me" lol)
At the gf's families (where I didn't expect anything and told them not to buy me anything):
Some more cologne (different then the gf got me)
A new hoodie
Wineopoly (wine monopoly, looks fun

)
A bottle of Royal Toakji 2003 red label (my favorite desert wine)
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A 16 bottle wine cooler (have 14 bottles of white and the tokaji in there right now

)
At my gf's best friends house (whom I have become good friends with as well)
A bottle of Don Julio tequila that we are going to share
At my stepdad's moms house:
$175
Shirt+boxers
Sony Blu-Ray player (can't wait to hook this up and watch my first Blu-Ray on my Kuro)
Still left:
Dad (out of town, and will prolly be mid-jan)
Mom (lives out of state, and will be first week in Jan when gf and I go visit)
What I gave:
To my gf
Speedlite 430 EX II
Canon 50 mm f1.8 II lens
Lowepro fastpack 200 camera bag
Book on wedding photography (she was doing a friends wedding she was really worried about, but then I found out xmas night she prolly won't go to it now

), and on her flash
A 7 inch digital photo frame (with pictures I preloaded, and photoshopped text on to

)
101 places to have sex before you die book
some other smaller things
To others:
mom is getting nice cutlery set (Henckels Grand Prix series) and mag knife holder
Dad is getting BB gift card
Stepdad got 3 DVD's he wanted
friends who I exchanged with got dvd's mainly, but some other stuff as well
All in all, was a good xmas so far