What a fscked up christmas.

DurocShark

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Ya'll remember my post about our finances. I still haven't paid rent and have just a few gifts for the kids. At least I got them stuff they really wanted.

My 2 1/2 year old daughter had surgery a week ago Friday to remove her adnoids. Dr said she removed a glob of flesh the size of a marshmallow! So she's been miserable anyway...

Then Wed night she dove off the bathroom counter onto the floor! Now she has 2 stitches in her lip. It's a battle to keep her from crying all day due to the pain. Plus she has a cold on top of all that and because of the surgery she can't blow her nose or use an aspirator (booger sucker).

It's hard to make it through each day. But my kids need me. I just wanna crawl into a hole and pull it in after me.

/depression whine

EDIT: Wife told me last night (the reason I didn't get back online) what happened at her dr's appointment on friday.

The doctor said he's certain, pending a biopsy, she has colon cancer.

Wife didn't want to say anything in front of the kids that's why she waited.

Also, guys, keep in mind this isn't a plea for money. Someone dropped some money in my paypal last night. While I'm not gonna turn it down, I'm NOT asking either. (But whoever it was, THANKS!)
 

bmacd

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now i'm KNOW i'm not ready to be a father. Sounds like way too much work. Hope it gets better for ya.

-=bmacd=-
 

FoBoT

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hang in there , you can do it

my kids are past that stage, but now the oldest is 12 and gettin the horriblemones/thinks she is an adult

somtimes i think changing a p00py diaper is easier to deal with
 

sniperruff

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you have the entire ATOT's support. hell if you are in financial troubles, we'll just all paypal you some little money and that may help.
 

EmperorIQ

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
hang in there , you can do it

my kids are past that stage, but now the oldest is 12 and gettin the horriblemones/thinks she is an adult

somtimes i think changing a p00py diaper is easier to deal with

my little sister is 14 now. oh man. . . a lot of times i tell her that whatever she is thinking now, about wanting to be independent, and thinking that she is grown, and thinking that she knows what she's doing, one day she'll look back and realize that i was right 90% of the time.
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: DurocShark
Ya'll remember my post about our finances. I still haven't paid rent and have just a few gifts for the kids. At least I got them stuff they really wanted.

My 2 1/2 year old daughter had surgery a week ago Friday to remove her adnoids. Dr said she removed a glob of flesh the size of a marshmallow! So she's been miserable anyway...

Then Wed night she dove off the bathroom counter onto the floor! Now she has 2 stitches in her lip. It's a battle to keep her from crying all day due to the pain. Plus she has a cold on top of all that and because of the surgery she can't blow her nose or use an aspirator (booger sucker).

It's hard to make it through each day. But my kids need me. I just wanna crawl into a hole and pull it in after me.

/depression whine

you the one who's wife bounced checks and incurred $1500 worth of penaties in 1 month?!

any which case, things will get better in the future.
 

chambersc

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Originally posted by: sniperruff
you have the entire ATOT's support. hell if you are in financial troubles, we'll just all paypal you some little money and that may help.

qft
 

bigrash

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Originally posted by: chambersc
Originally posted by: sniperruff
you have the entire ATOT's support. hell if you are in financial troubles, we'll just all paypal you some little money and that may help.

qft

2nd qft. I hope things get better man.
 

DurocShark

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Apr 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: Howard
Whatever you do, vodka (for the kids) is not the answer. :p

heeheehee

As for $$, thanks, but I'll pull this off myself. Buy my stuff though! heh

I just needed to vent/whine a bit. I'm not used to feeling this out of control.

 

drum

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are the adnoids in the throat? Or around back with all the other oids?
 

feelingshorter

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Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: DurocShark
Ya'll remember my post about our finances. I still haven't paid rent and have just a few gifts for the kids. At least I got them stuff they really wanted.

My 2 1/2 year old daughter had surgery a week ago Friday to remove her adnoids. Dr said she removed a glob of flesh the size of a marshmallow! So she's been miserable anyway...

Then Wed night she dove off the bathroom counter onto the floor! Now she has 2 stitches in her lip. It's a battle to keep her from crying all day due to the pain. Plus she has a cold on top of all that and because of the surgery she can't blow her nose or use an aspirator (booger sucker).

It's hard to make it through each day. But my kids need me. I just wanna crawl into a hole and pull it in after me.

/depression whine

you the one who's wife bounced checks and incurred $1500 worth of penaties in 1 month?!

any which case, things will get better in the future.

Find a new wife that spends logicaly....
 

DurocShark

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Crap.

Wife told me last night her doctor says she has colon cancer. WTF? I thought only old men got that!

Sigh.