Gooberlx2
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- May 4, 2001
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If he took her car without permission, she should have reported it stolen. By doing that, she'd be cleared of all responsibility, and her car would have been returned to her after it was searched.
Do you report your car stolen if your girlfriend takes it, even though you have no suspicion of illicit activites? Boy would she be pissed at you when she gets back from the station.
How do you know she didn't know? If you're a cop, and you walk up to a car, how do you know that the little old lady isn't going to pull a gun on you? My point is that you don't know. She could have known about the drugs all along, and not done anything about it. When their property was seized, the feds had no way of knowing she wasn't involved. I would have assume that she was involved, anybody would. In any matter, she took it to court, and won her property back, correct? You know what she should have done next? Sue her boyfriend for the court fees and anything else. You see? If you think about a situation before complaining about it, you don't sound as stupid.
The fact is the burden of proof shouldn't rest on her shoulders. It should be DA's job to prove that she did know, which, admittedly, would be hard to do. How hard do you think it is for someone to completely hide something like drugs? Dude, hides his stash in some box somewhere, claims he's going to the gym, but goes and buys/sells drugs instead. Or better yet, he does it when she's in the shower so he can take her car without asking. She comes out, sees he and the car is gone, thinks maybe he went for cigarettes. Why should she suspect anything?
But, if parents haven't instilled a small enough bit of values into the kid to keep them from buying or selling drugs while they live at home, then they deserve to be held monetarily or criminally responsible
This may be a bad comparison but....If we often don't penalize the parents of kids who commit murder, why should we penalize parents of kids who commit obviously lesser crimes, especially when it's so easy to hide those activites? I don't think you'd sing the same tune if your house was siezed because junior was selling dope without your knowing.