And no, we've never dated nor would I ever date her. It may be hard to understand but she is like a sister to me. There was a group of us that always hung out together and we all became like family. She's one of that group and has always been a good friend. I still haven't called the guy. Having second thoughts now. Man this sucks.
you know, maybe the guy did something bad, like cheat on her... and this is like her revenge. meh, i got no problems with that.
Your decision isn't weather or not to tell the boyfriend, your decision is if you want someone capable of doing this crap as your friend. Friendship isn't the "absolute" eveyone makes it to be, if someone starts acting crappy they don't get a pass just because you have known them for a while. You get to say "I've known you for 16 years, but if you're gonna act like this take a hike and don't call me because I don't associate with people that do those things."
Once you've made that decision, the rest is easy..
Call the guy up, invite him out for a beer, if he says no, tell him that he will need one after you tell him something.
We men need to stick together, especially when it involves women of this nature. I once dated a girl like this, only way I "got any" was to buy her gifts.
No matter what she may think of herself, that space between her legs is not lined with gold.
We men need to stick together, especially when it involves women of this nature. I once dated a girl like this, only way I "got any" was to buy her gifts.
No matter what she may think of herself, that space between her legs is not lined with gold.
Oh I know. It's just that this behavior is so different from her norm I don't know what to think.
take it as a protected measure.i know alot of you are saying to call the boyfriend, but tell me this: if a friend of your boyfriend/girlfriend who you don't know that well at all, suddenly called you and said something horrible about your bf/gf, would you really believe them? You would probably be freaked out, call your bf/gf, who will deny everything, which probably would lead you to suspect other intentions about this third party and perhaps retailate in some way.
its one thing if you are calling up some good friend, and even then it is sketchy. just my opinion. I'd be worried about you getting yourself into a big mess, even though you feel for this guy, Sleestak.
to me, your best option is to talk to you friend. Or you could call the guy, three-way to her, and get her to admit it on the phone, if you are dead set on helping the guy..that's kinda sneaky, tho.
its one thing if you are calling up some good friend, and even then it is sketchy. just my opinion. I'd be worried about you getting yourself into a big mess, even though you feel for this guy, Sleestak.
to me, your best option is to talk to you friend. Or you could call the guy, three-way to her, and get her to admit it on the phone, if you are dead set on helping the guy..that's kinda sneaky, tho.
I don't think so. She normally tells me everything that goes on in her relationships. Like I said earlier, they had some problems at first, his job used to require him to travel a lot, but they worked those out.
I've decided to call her and tell her she has a couple of choices.
A. I call her BF and let him know what is going on
B. She calls him, while I'm there to witness it, and breaks it off with him and offers to give the necklace back.
C. I stay out of it but she loses my frienship and will never speak to me again.
I feel like I'm living in the middle of a Soap Opera. Maybe I should bleach my hair blonde, change my name to Tad, and start drinking Zima.
A. I call her BF and let him know what is going on
B. She calls him, while I'm there to witness it, and breaks it off with him and offers to give the necklace back.
C. I stay out of it but she loses my frienship and will never speak to me again.
I feel like I'm living in the middle of a Soap Opera. Maybe I should bleach my hair blonde, change my name to Tad, and start drinking Zima.
Its not your business, dude. Leave it alone. I dont condone it, but bottom line is its not YOUR problem. Be glad its not you shes taking advantage of.
Shes not whore either for doing it. Shes just shallow and needs to grow up.
Bloody edit button!!!
Yeah like I said its not your problem and its certainly not your business. what she does in her time is her business a friend just supposed to be there, she wanted to brag, your a friend so you listen if you dont like it then tell her it was a cheesy move and you dont agree with it. Utlimately ITS NOT YOUR BUSINESS. She's doing you no harm. Its not you who gave her the necklace. So RELAX! Don't go giving her an ultimatum, she wont lose your friendship, you'll lose hers.
Yeah like I said its not your problem and its certainly not your business. what she does in her time is her business a friend just supposed to be there, she wanted to brag, your a friend so you listen if you dont like it then tell her it was a cheesy move and you dont agree with it. Utlimately ITS NOT YOUR BUSINESS. She's doing you no harm. Its not you who gave her the necklace. So RELAX! Don't go giving her an ultimatum, she wont lose your friendship, you'll lose hers.
Don't get involved...it'll most probably backfire.
But i would definitely let her know u disapprove. Don't condone it but don't be a superhero
and try to save the world.
But i would definitely let her know u disapprove. Don't condone it but don't be a superhero
and try to save the world.
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Dude call her and tell her how appaled and discusted you are about what she is doing. Tell her flat out that if she does such a cruel thing that she will loose you as a friend forever.
1. its a good test on how much she values the friendship you two have
2. its a good test in you evaluating her charater
1. its a good test on how much she values the friendship you two have
2. its a good test in you evaluating her charater
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