Nebor and nick are bigots who, in a lawless society would have their tires slashed on a regular basis. But you can't expect them to understand this. They have huge egos and see themselves as holy. Their particular form of bigotry makes monsters of folk like the Phelps family who in turn make monsters out of dead folk from the military. Monsters are always created by other monsters, one bigot against another bigot of a different stripe, both arrogant assholes who know that what they believe is absolute truth entitling them to act as righteous prosecutors. All you need is hate and the certainty that your hate is justified and that's not a challenge for bigots. We have to extend the same tolerance to nick and Nebor as we do to the Phelps family because they are exactly the same kind of bigots differing only in what they decide to hate so long as they talk without acting on what they say. You can't cure their bigotry with more bigotry. Folk like these were created by hate. Hating them more won't change anything.
The Phelps, nick, Nebor and folk like them are lost in their own hatred, a hatred of themselves. If you hate them you become one with them. They were made to feel contempt so they act contemptuously. Don't confuse the fact they are assholes with reality. They were made to be assholes by other assholes. If you hate them then they have done it to you.
We are all bigots. If you hate bigotry you will fix and make permanent your own bigotry. We have been forgiven, but only if we can forgive. If you can forgive the bigotry of others you can forgive your own. It's the only way. There are so many bigots of course, because the way of hate is so much easier than the way of love. It takes a giant like maybe Jesus to love folk like the Phelps, but you can be sure He does. just as surely as he loves you. Ahahahahahahahahaha