DivideBYZero
Lifer
- May 18, 2001
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I don't think this is a great idea, but it constantly amazes me at the kids responses to Women who have had children. The usual comments are instantly,'SLUT! EASY! YOU KNOE SHE PUTS OUT!'. What is odd is the same pimple farmers are trying their hardest to drag themselves away from WoW long enough to pass on their genetic material.
What are you going to do once you have kids yourself? Become a Monk?
What are you going to do once you have kids yourself? Become a Monk?
Picture this: You two decide to get serious (LTR). However, you're tired of club hopping and you just want to do something else other than dance, drink, listen to loud music. So you tell her to go with her friends instead while you're at home looking after the kid(s).
Aikouka
Lifer
- Nov 27, 2001
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Excuse me, o' knowing one, but I prefer to drag myself away from WoW to pass on my genetic material to not just any simple person ready to spread their legs :|. Duh, I must have a quest to do it first.
"Little Willy of Your Pants wishes you to escort him to the hidden sanctum of the child and hold off any resistance while he plants the magical seeds.
Rewards:
10s
You May Choose:
[Welfare Check] [Food Stamps]"
BrokenVisage
Lifer
- Jan 29, 2005
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Marinski
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rivan
Diamond Member
- Jul 8, 2003
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A close friend of mine married a girl in almost this exact circumstance. Here we are 7 years later, he had a kid with her that he has custody of, her first kid's with that kid's father, and she spends her time between meth sprees at her parents.
Both fathers have full custody and restraining orders against her.
If my experience with him is anything, we can all tell you to run right now and it (probably) won't make a bit of difference. Party girls are great for parties - not so great for wives.
Parties are like for small gatherings and whenever she can find a babysitter.
The only reason I'm still actually interested is that she has everything worked out. Totally dependent, goes to school full time, and has the government pay for everything.
She really isn't looking for a man with $$$$. I don't know, she asked what I was doing from 1-6 today and I told her nothing, so hopefully she'll call me.
All I got to say is I hardly know her and probably need another "date" or two to really figure it all out.
ATOT is like nationwide, its on my side. Thanks for the help, I'll try and update.
The only reason I'm still actually interested is that she has everything worked out. Totally dependent, goes to school full time, and has the government pay for everything.
She really isn't looking for a man with $$$$. I don't know, she asked what I was doing from 1-6 today and I told her nothing, so hopefully she'll call me.
All I got to say is I hardly know her and probably need another "date" or two to really figure it all out.
ATOT is like nationwide, its on my side. Thanks for the help, I'll try and update.
I would never get involved with a mom at my age... I hope to someday have my OWN kids with a woman...
Mermaidman
Diamond Member
- Sep 4, 2003
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you might be a little young to deal with someone who's got a kid already, but at the same time, people do make mistakes, and she might be a changed person from the person who became pregnant at 18 1/2.
she might be a genuinely great person, and no, you shouldn't run away like everyone else in the thread says (oh, it's probably b/c they can ALL do better, they can ALL strike gold when they want to, and they all KNOW that b/c she's got a kid, everything is out of line for her)... she may be getting things back on track, or at least be trying to.
i dated a girl w/ a single mom, and her mom was an awesome person, so you never know.
give it an honest chance and see what happens. If it works out, that would be awesome. If not, don't worry about it, wish her the best and move on.
my .02
edit: just to be perfectly clear, don't marry or have kids until you're SURE she's not a headcase... but don't write her off until you know she is.
she might be a genuinely great person, and no, you shouldn't run away like everyone else in the thread says (oh, it's probably b/c they can ALL do better, they can ALL strike gold when they want to, and they all KNOW that b/c she's got a kid, everything is out of line for her)... she may be getting things back on track, or at least be trying to.
i dated a girl w/ a single mom, and her mom was an awesome person, so you never know.
give it an honest chance and see what happens. If it works out, that would be awesome. If not, don't worry about it, wish her the best and move on.
my .02
edit: just to be perfectly clear, don't marry or have kids until you're SURE she's not a headcase... but don't write her off until you know she is.
Why? If you have to ask why you want to be with her, you shouldn't. *cue Carlos Mencina's DUH DUH DUH*
I think its nice you are spending time with the handicapped. Is this a senior project? Anyhow kudos to you and good luck with the reconstructive surgery.
2 things
1. Lunch will solidly put you in the friends zone.
2. Run for your life. Baby-momma drama no good!
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