Went on a date with a 20 year old mother

ballmode

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It went ok.

Had lunch at Chili's with her then we went back to school to work on her math.

I graduate this fall, she graduates 2 years from now.

Don't see it working out, but then again... who knows. She has a good head on her shoulders, but has crazy party tendencies. Her parents don't like how she raises the daughter, but I don't know the details. I don't think we have much in common but we get along. Alot of her time is with her baby girl, work, and school. The government pretty much pays about everything for her, being a single college mom.


So ATOT, what does Ballmode do from here?

Right now it's just waiting for the next call back from her. If she doesn't call/text back by Saturday, forget this post ever was created.

The 20 year old

The pic is all I really got, the rest are just pics of the baby like a few months ago. Nothing much.

I know the pic is "weak" but she is about 130-140, 5'7-5'8.
 

DVK916

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I assume you mean a 4 year college. Don't get to attached to the child, because things might not work out
 

RelaxTheMind

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Her crazy party tendencies may have contributed to her 1½ year old... Friendship would need to come first in this situation.
 

ballmode

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I'm friends with her best friend, the best friend claims she has been with 2 guys since the baby.

Been screwed over by both, probably defensive around me because of past guys.
 

alphatarget1

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The last thing a 20 year old mother (or any mother for that matter) with a 1.5 year old daughter should have is "crazy party tendency". She has a daughter and she should know better.
 

ballmode

Lifer
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The funny thing is, is that the parties only include girls half the time, and the baby I presume is in the other room.
 

I Saw OJ

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A 20 year old with a 1 & 1/2 year old? Dont even bother. I'm sure there are plenty of other girls at that college that didnt screw up their lives.
 

TheChort

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Originally posted by: alphatarget1
The last thing a 20 year old mother (or any mother for that matter) with a 1.5 year old daughter should have is "crazy party tendency". She has a daughter and she should know better.

way to go
you tell her!
 

HybridSquirrel

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dont run right now, just tell her its not your kid so you arent responsible, than put it in her and run
 

b0mbrman

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Originally posted by: Merlyn3D
What's the story with her having a kid?

Uh...this is a little awkward but...

When two people love each other very much, they share a special kind of "hug," called "f***ing"...and nine months later, she has a kid