Originally posted by: Dopefiend
Originally posted by: SampSon
The worst is long after you actually quit.
I quit cold turkey about 4 years ago, and didn't touch a single smoke the entire time. I could go out to bars, go outside with the smokers on breaks, hangout with smokers, whatever and I never had the craving to smoke. I don't believe in any of the patches or gums or any of that crap. The only way to quit is cold turkey. It's will power or nothing.
Recently I've started back up again, I'm not smoking near as much as I used to, but I'm definatly smoking again. I think much of it has to do with stress and my gf and practically her entire family being smokers. I don't really feel terrible that I started smoking again, except the fact that it does cost a fairly pretty penny to maintain.
I think it boils down to the fact that I -like- smoking. So I guess that I'm probably going to be an on and off smoker for a better part of my life.
That's worrying, as I too actually
enjoy smoking, as opposed to merely being addicted. There's something... special? about it. It's difficult to explain, but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.
It's been a human pasttime for a vast majority of human history. Humans like to smoke, they like the action of it, they like the taste, the smell, the effects, the social qualities as well. It has been a part of our lives in some form forever, and it's not going away anytime soon.
Though I think that we smoke too much, too frequently and for the wrong "reasons" today. On top of that the tobacco products we have today are definatly different from tobacco of days past. Smoking should be handled in a manner closer to what it was originally intended. A relaxing pasttime, and not a stress induced social crutch.
People today are obsessive about their health to the point where it runs their lives. Many forget there are so many simple pleasures in the world that will not conform to todays rigid health standards. So you have to weigh the cost to benefit ratio of doing things you like, to not leading a perfectly healthy lifestyle.
I say you should definatly quit for a while. A few months, a year, a couple years, whatever just give it a go. If anything it should be to prove to yourself that you can do it if you want, and that your willpower has more control than a simple substance from an age old plant.
When I did quit I did enjoy the fact that when I went out to a bar I would be one of the very few somkers. Knowing that I easily shed the action of smoking while still being able to socialize in a smokers world was slightly empowering. At that point I had no desire to smoke even when it was right in my face all the time.
So go for it, prove to yourself that you have control over yourself and your actions.