Virginity....

[The Stigenator]

<< Ok what about girls who like girls. If they have never had sex in the traditional way, but have used "toys". Would they still be virgins? >>



YES!

 

[toant103]

yes,

well, depend if your a girl or not. If your a girl and the guy bust your bubble, then your not a virgin anymore.

 

[gopunk]

Anyway gopunk, who cares what society thinks? If you're 35, single and a virgin then there's probably a problem, but I'm content to stay a virgin for a while longer. Oral sex would make that easier.

well yea, i'm not about to bang some skank just to not be a virgin

i was just wondering really....

and stormrider - i know what you're saying, i was just wondering about the semantics of it all...

 

[Sir Fredrick]

<< If oral and anal sex is not sex -- then why not do it with your sister? It should be okay since it's not sex. >>



That's a silly argument. Do you also consider french kissing and breast fondling to be sex? These things are SEXUAL, but not sex.

 

[Elledan]

Who cares? It's a moot point, anyway, so none of you will ever agree on it.

 

[DanJ]

<< If oral and anal sex is not sex -- then why not do it with your sister? It should be okay since it's not sex. >>


Yea...because people aren't doing that because they don't want to "de-virginize" themselves...not like it's a moral issue or anything...

great priorities dude.

 

[amnesiac]

<< Who is more chaste? A "virgin" woman who has appeared in 100 oral/anal gangbang videos? Or a "non-virgin" woman who only has intercourse with men she has loved? >>



The issue isn't about chaste, it's about virginity. If you haven't had sexual intercourse, you're a virgin. End of argument. Next.



<< If oral and anal sex is not sex -- then why not do it with your sister? It should be okay since it's not sex. >>



Nice one, freakshow. That's still an incestuous sexual act, probably not punishable by incest laws in your state but may fall under indecent sexual assault. While you're at it, why don't you have your mom give you a bj then go ram your dad, you idiot?

 

[StormRider]

<<
<< Who is more chaste? A "virgin" woman who has appeared in 100 oral/anal gangbang videos? Or a "non-virgin" woman who only has intercourse with men she has loved? >>



The issue isn't about chaste, it's about virginity. If you haven't had sexual intercourse, you're a virgin. End of argument. Next.



<< If oral and anal sex is not sex -- then why not do it with your sister? It should be okay since it's not sex. >>



Nice one, freakshow. That's still an incestuous sexual act, probably not punishable by incest laws in your state but may fall under indecent sexual assault. While you're at it, why don't you have your mom give you a bj then go ram your dad, you idiot?
>>



The whole point of my posts was that virginity is a meaningless concept. It's stupid to be proud of being a virgin because it doesn't mean anything. There are girls out there who act like they are special because they are "technical" virgins but they have had lots of sexual experience. To me, that's stupid.

Since it is such a meaningless and unimportant concept, why even worry about it?

 

[BigFatCow]

<< Wishful thinking?
(Oral_sex != lost_virginity) && (Oral_sex == woohoo)

yea but...

using namespace society;

if (gender == male && virgin == true){
return bad;
}
else if{
return good;
}

and i think that both lose virginity.... at least that's how it is nowadays >>




this kind of talking isnt going to help you loose your virginity....

 

[dionx]

virginity like a balloon. one prick, all gone.

in that case, oral sex does not lose your virginity.

 

[Descartes]

Per my aunt who is a DHS worker and works with a lot of troubled teens in the public school system...

Young (and I mean *young) girls are having anal sex to appease their boyfriends (or transient male acquaintances) because they feel anal sex != sex. They feel that having anal sex with n guys still makes them a virgin. It's sad what some people will do to "fit in" (no pun) these days.

 

[Grinchy]

The hershey highway has been used for millenia as a 'replacement' for sex to maintain one's (a woman, I would guess) virginity.

Absolutely ludicrous. I'm a man, so 'physical' virginity, like a hymen doesn't exist for me, but I know I lost my virginity ('innocence'), the first time I wanted to have sex with a particular woman (instead of all women). It wasn't even the act, though that was admittedly very nice. I believe virginity is in the mind, and when you have chosen to go to that level of intimacy in your mind, then you aren't a virgin. No matter what devices or tricks you have played on your body to stay a virgin.

I also believe that you feel like a virgin with essentially every new partner, as it is a mental desiring, not a physical.

 

[GasX]

<< I also believe that you feel like a virgin with essentially every new partner, as it is a mental desiring, not a physical. >>

ummmmm, ok.

I am thinking you are Steve Buscemi in Resevoir Dogs?