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*UPDATED!!* TORN BETWEEN 2 GIRLS :(

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her209

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How come your dream connection is only xDSL?
How 'bout some OC3 :D
 

dbzwukan

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i'm now 'torn' between 2 girls too....

but i'm going to try to score both of them... it'd be hard since we all go to the same video arcade.

i hope 1) they are both 16 or over and 2) they are easy.
 

dude8604

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There are a few basic things that I would do. First of all, cheating on her is a bad idea. Eventually you're going to have to give up one or the other, so you might as well do it now. It will only get harder to do. Before you do anything, you need to figure out if the other girl you like is someone who you really want to be with, and not just a physical thing like you said before.

If you don't like the girl who you're with anymore, then you shouldn't be with her. It's that simple. Even though you just got back together with her a week ago, it still would be better to break up with her now, instead of when she thinks that you like her again and that you want to be with her. She was already wondering why you got back together with her again, which means that she'll get suspicious that something strange is happening.

No matter how much you think that you won't get caught cheating, you will. I don't know how, but something will happen like one will call you when you're with the other. That would cause you to lose both of them instead of just one.

Since it sounds like you don't want to be with your current girlfriend, I'd reccommend just dumping her and being with the other one. I hope this helps. Feel free to PM me if you need any more help. Good luck!

edit: This may seem a little rude, but can someone please help me?
 

SinNisTeR

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ahhhh BOOOOOOOO, you HAVE to post pics!!

i wanna see what kind of taste my brazilian brother has! :D
 

simms

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<< Nothing wrong with being torn between to girls, happens to me all the time. Basically pick one and keep the other on the back burner. When you're bored of the first one, you always have the other to fall back on.

P.S.

Remember to be an a$$hole to both. :D
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...not right!
 

oLLie

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Jan 15, 2001
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<< m&eacute;nage &agrave; trois >>


Somebody can spell it right! Hmm... her209 that looks like herzog.
 

Alex

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<< ahhhh BOOOOOOOO, you HAVE to post pics!!

i wanna see what kind of taste my brazilian brother has! :D
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:p you wish!
 

Pastore

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i was in the exact same situation... i was dating a girl for a while, then find out my crush of like 2 years liked me back the whole time... im still with my girlfriend today... 4 years and counting...

you just need to make a decision... whether you want the girlfriend or your crush, dont worry about hurting feelings, think about what YOU want before you get attached anymore
 

Alex

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<< i was in the exact same situation... i was dating a girl for a while, then find out my crush of like 2 years liked me back the whole time... im still with my girlfriend today... 4 years and counting...

you just need to make a decision... whether you want the girlfriend or your crush, dont worry about hurting feelings, think about what YOU want before you get attached anymore
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you just beat me to my edit!
read the first post again! theres how this worked out for me... i slightly regret it at times but i suppose since im goin to college anyway in a couple months its not worth putting the time in, no offence to her. and also i wasnt happy. plus her dad hates me now. (hes bigger than me :p)