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um... really weird... met a girl - I think she's... married??

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Originally posted by: zixxer
ok... I got some pm's that were slightly - personal. Seems as if a girl in my area is cheating on her guy...... I've saved my post - and will edit tomorrow.


BAN for removing the original.
 
that is way cool that you guys just hit it off.

also way weird that she's married.

ehh, just fly by the seat of your pants. whatever happens happens.
 
Originally posted by: zixxer
She is married - her husband is overseas. Apparently he cheated on her like 6 months ago - she's seen him once since then, they fought the whole time, and are mutually agreeing to split once he's back here. Hmm. Nothing physical happened tonight - less flirty than the other day though... we're supposed to hang out tomorrow night - I might cancel on her. I'm a little wierded out by the whole thing - and since I really dont know her - i wonder if it's all true or she's just bored with her husband gone :-/

And how hard would it be for a person to make up a lie like that with her spouse gone? She could say that in order to make you feel better about the situation.

Lying or the truth... either way she is STILL married and you're asking for major trouble if you get involved with her. Run... far and fast from this one.
 
She is married - her husband is overseas. Apparently he cheated on her like 6 months ago - she's seen him once since then, they fought the whole time, and are mutually agreeing to split once he's back here. Hmm. Nothing physical happened tonight - less flirty than the other day though... we're supposed to hang out tomorrow night - I might cancel on her. I'm a little wierded out by the whole thing - and since I really dont know her - i wonder if it's all true or she's just bored with her husband gone :-/

she's feeding you a line.
her husband will come back, hunt you down, and beat you to a pulp.
 
Stay away until she's divorced. Seriously, stay away -- adultery is bad... mmmkay?

Even if it *does* work out between you two, you don't want *her* mistakes to be the reason for her divorce.
 
Ask her when her husband comes back and verify that she really IS getting divorced. You'll be able to tell if she's being dodgy.
 
STAY AWAY! Don't touch her...heck even check her out....until she has a final divorce in her hands. Plus, that's way too fast to be seeing other people, her marriage is only recently started to break up? Needy FTL!!

Never underestimate the power of a women to manipulate, nor the power of your little head to do all the thinking.
 
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
STAY AWAY! Don't touch her...heck even check her out....until she has a final divorce in her hands. Plus, that's way too fast to be seeing other people, her marriage is only recently started to break up? Needy FTL!!

Never underestimate the power of a women to manipulate, nor the power of your little head to do all the thinking.

6 months != recently?
 
hmmm she's so hot though. Her ideas are so different from most chicks (which happen to fit mine almost perfectly..)


figures... lol
 
Originally posted by: zixxer
hmmm she's so hot though. Her ideas are so different from most chicks (which happen to fit mine almost perfectly..)


figures... lol

Tell her how you feel and get confirmation that they are actually apart and go from there.
 
Originally posted by: Aflac
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
STAY AWAY! Don't touch her...heck even check her out....until she has a final divorce in her hands. Plus, that's way too fast to be seeing other people, her marriage is only recently started to break up? Needy FTL!!

Never underestimate the power of a women to manipulate, nor the power of your little head to do all the thinking.

6 months != recently?

1. No divorce, so its not really been 6 months, evewn if she claims she hasn't seen or had contact with her husband.

2. At least a year is needed to heal POST divorce (see above), I've read/heard this multple times.
 
Wow....that sucks.

I wouldn't do it man, I couldn't. Even if they're breaking up, I could't be "that guy" to someone who's serving in the military.

That really blows, I feel bad for you.
 
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
Originally posted by: Aflac
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
STAY AWAY! Don't touch her...heck even check her out....until she has a final divorce in her hands. Plus, that's way too fast to be seeing other people, her marriage is only recently started to break up? Needy FTL!!

Never underestimate the power of a women to manipulate, nor the power of your little head to do all the thinking.

6 months != recently?

1. No divorce, so its not really been 6 months, evewn if she claims she hasn't seen or had contact with her husband.

2. At least a year is needed to heal POST divorce (see above), I've read/heard this multple times.

You're an idiot.
 
Originally posted by: zixxer
hmmm she's so hot though. Her ideas are so different from most chicks (which happen to fit mine almost perfectly..)


figures... lol

Charm and teh hawtness doesn't cement good long term relationships. Take a cold shower and think about this rationally.
 
Originally posted by: Mike
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
Originally posted by: Aflac
Originally posted by: SecretShadow
STAY AWAY! Don't touch her...heck even check her out....until she has a final divorce in her hands. Plus, that's way too fast to be seeing other people, her marriage is only recently started to break up? Needy FTL!!

Never underestimate the power of a women to manipulate, nor the power of your little head to do all the thinking.

6 months != recently?

1. No divorce, so its not really been 6 months, evewn if she claims she hasn't seen or had contact with her husband.

2. At least a year is needed to heal POST divorce (see above), I've read/heard this multple times.

You're an idiot.

Love you too, sweetie.
 
Originally posted by: fbrdphreak
Wow....that sucks.

I wouldn't do it man, I couldn't. Even if they're breaking up, I could't be "that guy" to someone who's serving in the military.

That really blows, I feel bad for you.

You do realize people serving in the military are human. They are not as innocent as the general public thinks.

I can recall countless stories of the guys I used to be stationed with coming to work bragging about how they "nailed a married chick" this weekend...



 
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