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um... really weird... met a girl - I think she's... married??

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Apparently he cheated on her like 6 months ago

I don't see where you've stated that she's never cheated on him before...

If she'll cheat on him, she'll cheat on you. I don't care what reason she gives for cheating on him. You could end up married to her, and she'll cheat on you - reason: "He's working too many hours" or some other lame reason. If one spouse cheats on the other, they either need to get over it and work things out (which would probably take some marriage counseling) or, they need to seek a divorce. Those are the two options. Cheating to get even isn't among the options.
 
just cuz she says she's getting a divorce when he comes back doesnt mean she will

Originally posted by: BoberFett
But be sure to double bag your goods, you're not the first guys she has messed around with. Hell, you're probably not the only other guy she's working on this week.

:thumbsup::thumbsup:

 
Originally posted by: zixxer
Originally posted by: electrosoccertux
Originally posted by: pontifex
i don't know if anyone mentioned it yet but the reason she doesn't like phones is because she doesn't want her boyfriends calling when her husband is home.

Ima second that one.

I don't think so - she gave me her cell the first day we met. She has a job that keeps her from answering her phone - but she can check her email.

cell calls would be a lot easier to hide than landline calls...
 
Originally posted by: zixxershe married after knowing the dude 2 months. They never lived together - basically he was going overseas and asked her to marry him last minute...

Wow...
 
Originally posted by: PCMarine
Originally posted by: zixxershe married after knowing the dude 2 months. They never lived together - basically he was going overseas and asked her to marry him last minute...

Wow...

no kidding.... i'm sure we'll hang out more next week... ill keep you all posted
 
Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Originally posted by: fbrdphreak
Wow....that sucks.

I wouldn't do it man, I couldn't. Even if they're breaking up, I could't be "that guy" to someone who's serving in the military.

That really blows, I feel bad for you.

You do realize people serving in the military are human. They are not as innocent as the general public thinks.

I can recall countless stories of the guys I used to be stationed with coming to work bragging about how they "nailed a married chick" this weekend...


And then there is "TDY" ... Temporarily Divorced for a Year"
When ur separated for a long period of time... talking on the fone/letters don't cut it... especially marrying after 2 months...
on the plus side... u do get more pay for having a spouse (courtesy of tax dollars) and u get away with lotta stuff single service members don't get... (food pay, separate/off post quarters)...

not saying that everyone does this... but it happens alot...
 
please let us know if she turns out to be a stalker, before she kidnaps you and locks you in an old well
 
well done i guess. the fact that she is still married and that into you and she married after 2 months is kindof a turn off, but other than that she sounds great. Although without pics, im gonna have to assume you're lying about the hot thing
 
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