Disney?
Hell I dunno...the little one wont remember it, so it will be more of a "mommy taking her little girl to Disney" vacation, but my wife seems to dig that place.
stay home
my wife and i took our first kid to the poconos at the same age and it was exhausting. he liked playing in the water, but kids don't like sleeping in unfamiliar settings
I don't want to sound like a jerk, but I wonder why you'd bring a child that young on an airplane for a vacation she won't remember. I was taken on an airplane a LOT as an infant, but I really don't have any concrete memories before age 4 or 5. Meanwhile, a screaming kid on a plane is one of the most universally aggravating things in the world, both for other passengers, and for the parents who have to stress out about the sounds coming out of their child. Might as well save the miles and take a car trip to somewhere close; visit a lake or a mountain. Go to Disneyland when she turns 4; she will love it, and you'll save a bundle in the meantime.
We brought our then-2-yo daughter with us to South Africa in 2006. 26 hours, gate to gate. Was a breeze, but we planned it out well (benadryl and plenty of activities/distractions) and she's a VERY easy going kid. She slept for a huge chunk of the flight and colored, watched Dora and played the rest.
On the other end of the spectrum, my son's not a great traveler - too much energy and being cooped up on a plane has never worked out well with him. We went to Seoul a couple years ago, he was about 2, and the flight was not enjoyable.
So, I'd say it depends on you, and your kid. Don't let the kidless/singles here tell you not to travel with your kid because there might be some crying.
I appreciate all the input. I understand that she will not remember the trip. The trip is really for my wife and I. As much as I am ready to go to Disney again, I think I am going to wait until she is older for that one. I'm mainly looking for a place for the 3 of us to go and relax. It will probaly end up being a beach destination of some sort. Does anyone have any good beach or resort suggestions? I've been to the panhandle of FL, but never south FL. I was think possibly Miami or Key West.
Never been more south than Orlando myself.
If you're looking east coast, the Outer Banks is a really nice area.
I'm not familiar with the Outer Banks. Where is that?