1) Friends brings in about 8 million dollars per episode in ad revenue. Sopranos brings in ZERO!
2) Friends has 6 major cast members to pay, The Sopranos has over a dozen.
3) Friends has almost no secondary characters to pay other than temporary boyfriends/girlfriends. The Sopranos has another dozen
4) The syndication value of Friends is hundreds of millions of dollars. The syndication value of The Sopranos so far: Another big fat ZERO
If you're considering paying a cable TV actor on the same scale as a Top 5 series network actor you don't even have a shred of a clue. Do that and nobody would be able to afford to subscribe to HBO. Gandolfini needs to wake up and get a reality check. The show creates the star, not the other way around. Without The Sopranos he is nothing but the flavor of the month. Want proof?
~Anyone seen Jimmy Smits or Rick Schroeder since they left NYPD Blue? Hell, it took Caruso 10 years to get another steady job after walking away.
~Seinfeld left the air as the number one show on TV, yet Richards, Alexander and Louis-Dreyfruss ALL bombed the very next year
~How'd the M*A*S*H gang do after the show ended? Alda had a few movie roles before fading away and Farrell got a couple of small roles, the rest: Bupkiss
~Cheers left the air as the #1 show. Other than Ted Danson is anyone in that cast working steadily now? Hell, did Shelly Long fall off the face of the earth after leaving Cheers for the stardom she thought was her due?
If Gandolfini left The Sopranos he'd get a few movie roles and probably just fade into obscurity. He's just a character in a great show. Despite the BS his agent is whispering in his ear he is not the reason the show is great. Writing, directing and support cast are what makes a series watching week after week, the performance of the leading man is secondary. If Gandolfini is so upset at 400k per show, let him quit and get a real job. Odds are you'll see him doing Death of a Salesman in summerstock in Des Moines Iowa with John Goodman, Gary Burghoff and all the other ex-actors who thought they were stars.