Originally posted by: archcommus
Our waiters and waitresses are nicer to us here because they have an incentive to make us happy (getting a good tip).
So suck it.
No, our waiters and waitress are driven by their mood... if they don't give a damn about making money and just want to go home, then they make you feel like they don't give a damn about you and just want you to go home.
With tipping, if your food is running late, is cold, or the wait staff is just flat out BUSY... then they are the ones who get crapped on for it. The kitchen staff, the reason you are there, still gets every penny they were on the clock for... and some places have the nerve to make the wait staff surrender a portion of their tips to them.
With tipping, if you don't like your food or service, you don't tip. But then you get called a cheapass (among other things), and if they ever notice you in their restaurant again, you probably get spit in your food and a bad attitude. Tipping has become to most people a given right, not the act of courtesy and reward it is supposed to. Too many waiters and waitresses are spoiled brats and that's the problem. They are like the kid that gets whatever they want because if they don't, they're gonna throw a fit and not do what they are told. Not all... but many.
For the record, I have no problem tipping more or less for good/bad service. Don't cry to me if you can't make rent because you have a piss poor attitude or don't make me enjoy visiting your establishment. Learn to do your job like the people that I tip extra to. You want to make $5 from one person in a 40 minute span? EARN IT. I work a crappy job for crappy pay but I work my ass off for that pay. I'm not going to just hand it off to you because it's the social norm.
And for the record, if tipping worked like it was supposed to, that'd be fine by me. A tip should not be expected. There should be no "15%"... a tip should be EARNED.