This sucks...

[lavagirl669]

awww Aquaman

you're the best

 

[dudeman007]

Originally posted by: SynthDude2001

Very strange.

At the risk of sounding insensitive, it does sound like the relationship between the two wasn't that great to begin with...

 

[lavagirl669]

The relationship was ok, but a little strained at the end due to money issues.....

it still sucks to end things like that.....with such finality and no peace.

 

[Geekbabe]

The mother clearly had underlying medical issues , I'd comfort your friend with the idea that her mother sounds like she was not herself mentally when she made that call.

 

[lavagirl669]

thanks Geekbabe....yes I told her something like that.
That's what I was thinking too.....

 

[winr]

A big hug for your friend and some :sun: shine.

 

[DAGTA]

More and more research is finding that mental attitude (positive vs negative) has a profound effect upon health. Perhaps her attitude partially led to her death.

My sympathy to your friend.

 

[PCTweaker5]

I think its depression. If it had something to do with the heart then it was probably from being so heart broken. SERIOUSLY!!! Ive been very depressed sometimes that when crying I felt like a sharp pain in my heart and got a little scared.

 

[lavagirl669]

thanks for all the condolences again...
agreed on the depression and health stuff....
that can lead to some serious problems.

 

[DWW]

Oh man that sucks

When I was a teenager my aunt told me to come help my grandfather because he had a drinking habit shortly after his wife died. My aunt (we didn't get along at the time) told me that he would die shortly if I didn't help him (he thought no one cared about him), so I told her so be it (I felt he was partially responsible for my grandmothers death). Sure enough he drank himself to death and then my aunt committed suicide.

Stuff like that can mess you up

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: nietsni3
in asian culture, at the "right" hours of the day, if you say something bad it may become true

and prolly the new moon thing adds to that factor as well

 

[PCTweaker5]

Originally posted by: DWW
Oh man that sucks

When I was a teenager my aunt told me to come help my grandfather because he had a drinking habit shortly after his wife died. My aunt (we didn't get along at the time) told me that he would die shortly if I didn't help him (he thought no one cared about him), so I told her so be it (I felt he was partially responsible for my grandmothers death). Sure enough he drank himself to death and then my aunt committed suicide.

Stuff like that can mess you up

Jeezus dude!

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: PCTweaker5

Originally posted by: DWW
Oh man that sucks

When I was a teenager my aunt told me to come help my grandfather because he had a drinking habit shortly after his wife died. My aunt (we didn't get along at the time) told me that he would die shortly if I didn't help him (he thought no one cared about him), so I told her so be it (I felt he was partially responsible for my grandmothers death). Sure enough he drank himself to death and then my aunt committed suicide.

Stuff like that can mess you up

Jeezus dude!

eeek, now this story takes the cake..

that sucks dude

 

[DWW]

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: PCTweaker5

Originally posted by: DWW
Oh man that sucks

When I was a teenager my aunt told me to come help my grandfather because he had a drinking habit shortly after his wife died. My aunt (we didn't get along at the time) told me that he would die shortly if I didn't help him (he thought no one cared about him), so I told her so be it (I felt he was partially responsible for my grandmothers death). Sure enough he drank himself to death and then my aunt committed suicide.

Stuff like that can mess you up

Jeezus dude!

eeek, now this story takes the cake..

that sucks dude

Yeah it sucks. I realize now, 4 years later, that it wasn't really my fault. I do regret not trying to help them, but hindsight is always 20/20. At the time I was angry because my grandmother died of malnutrition cause cancer treatment left her not hungry in her later years and we felt my grandfather should have "fed" her. She was like a concentration camp member towards the end

 

[candicec]

lava girl...

that is one messed up story!!! omg!!!!

I would feel horrible..I wonder how she is handling it??

how absolutely awful...and ironic..


your pal,

candicec

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: nietsni3
in asian culture, at the "right" hours of the day, if you say something bad it may become true

and prolly the new moon thing adds to that factor as well

A lot of asian culture here in Hawaii too....people are
very superstitious and spiritual.

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: DWW
Oh man that sucks

When I was a teenager my aunt told me to come help my grandfather because he had a drinking habit shortly after his wife died. My aunt (we didn't get along at the time) told me that he would die shortly if I didn't help him (he thought no one cared about him), so I told her so be it (I felt he was partially responsible for my grandmothers death). Sure enough he drank himself to death and then my aunt committed suicide.

Stuff like that can mess you up

Sorry to hear about that
and I need to keep a close eye on my friend, it must
be seriously screwing her up.

 

[bleeb]

Sorry to hear that too. Too bad.